Merry Christmas vs. Happy Holidays .

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the phrases "Merry Christmas" and "Happy Holidays," exploring the social implications and reactions associated with their use. Participants examine the appropriateness of these greetings in diverse cultural and religious contexts, touching on themes of political correctness, personal beliefs, and historical origins of Christmas.

Discussion Character

  • Debate/contested
  • Conceptual clarification
  • Historical

Main Points Raised

  • Some participants question the objections to saying "Merry Christmas," suggesting that such objections may be exaggerated or politically motivated.
  • Others argue that wishing "Merry Christmas" to someone who does not celebrate it, such as a Jewish person, may not be appropriate.
  • A few participants express a preference for "Happy Holidays" as a more inclusive greeting that acknowledges multiple celebrations during the season.
  • There are claims regarding the historical origins of Christmas, including its ties to pagan traditions and the Winter Solstice, with some participants asserting that Jesus was not born on December 25.
  • Some participants recount personal anecdotes about experiencing or witnessing objections to "Merry Christmas," suggesting that such incidents may be isolated or indicative of broader societal trends.
  • Discussions also touch on the commercialization of the holiday season, with references to marketing strategies in stores that may influence the greetings used by employees.
  • There is a debate about the historical significance of December 25 as a date for Christmas, with differing opinions on whether it was chosen for religious or pagan reasons.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express a range of views on the appropriateness of using "Merry Christmas" versus "Happy Holidays," indicating that there is no consensus on the matter. Some participants agree on the importance of inclusivity, while others defend the traditional use of "Merry Christmas."

Contextual Notes

Some claims about the historical origins of Christmas and the significance of December 25 are presented without definitive evidence, and there are varying interpretations of the relationship between Christmas and pagan holidays. The discussion reflects differing personal experiences and cultural perspectives.

  • #31


Ryan_m_b said:
I was under the impression that this never happened and there isn't any evidence that the Romans ever practiced such a census.

If it was for tax purposes there was definitely a census:wink:
 
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  • #32


OmCheeto said:
"Bloody Romans...

What have they ever done for us?"

Perhaps we should ask the Peoples Front of Judea...


I had a coworker just last night give me a little guff about responding "Happy Holidays" to his "Merry Christmas." Perhaps it happens just as much both ways?
 
  • #33


Ryan_m_b said:
I was under the impression that this never happened and there isn't any evidence that the Romans ever practiced such a census.

The Romans loved the census - itself a Latin word. It goes all the way back to the Kings of Rome, centuries before the Empire. Augustus took at least three, in 28 BC, 8 BC and 14 AD.

This actually is a problem with biblical chronology. We have a ministry that began when Jesus was about 30, lasted 1-3 years and he was executed under Pontius Pilate, whose reign began in 26 and ended in 36. It's a bit of a stretch to make the 8 BC census work out, and the other two are hopeless.
 
  • #34


Vanadium 50 said:
The Romans loved the census - itself a Latin word. It goes all the way back to the Kings of Rome, centuries before the Empire. Augustus took at least three, in 28 BC, 8 BC and 14 AD
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I'm aware of the censuses but its the whole "go back to your home town" thing that I'm fairly certain never happened.
 
  • #35


#1: The date of Jesus' birth was moved to coincide with the pagan festival Saturnalia as a way to convert more pagans (in the same way that saints were invented for pagans who were uncomfortable with monotheism)
#2: Easter falls on the Sunday following the Paschal full moon.
#3: There was a Roman census around the time Jesus' birth was estimated

Sources: I am still being raised a catholic
 
  • #36


I don't think anyone actually objects but it would just sound pretty idiotic of me to say Merry Christmas to my Chinese friends. If all of your friends come from a Christian culture then go ahead and say Merry Christmas.

leroyjenkens said:
Actually, I don't know. Isn't Easter one of those holidays that doesn't have a fixed day?
But is there a connection I'm missing?

I didn't know they did move the date. Why did they have to move it? And how does that relate to his real day of birth?

It's a coincidence that Mark Twain predicted when he'd die.
Coincidences happen.

I went to a catholic school and our priest was the one who told us that Jesus was born in the summer and that Christmas was chosen to compete with pagan rituals.

It doesn't say anywhere in the bible that Christians have to ignore the reasons behind the historic spread of Christianity...

Surely the least interesting and least contentious thing about any religion should be the days of the year it celebrates its festivals on...
 
  • #37


RabbitWho said:
I went to a catholic school and our priest was the one who told us that Jesus was born in the summer and that Christmas was chosen to compete with pagan rituals.

I still go to Catholic School and one of my former priests told us all of those things. He believed that a religion's history, even the bad parts, were important to learning the true meaning behind the religion.
I wish my priest and teachers now were more like him. I often tell all of my friends all of these things, but I do try to keep it to a minimum. One can easily get reprimanded in my school for, what many of my teachers believe is, belittling Catholicism.
 
  • #38


Jow said:
I still go to Catholic School and one of my former priests told us all of those things. He believed that a religion's history, even the bad parts, were important to learning the true meaning behind the religion.
I wish my priest and teachers now were more like him. I often tell all of my friends all of these things, but I do try to keep it to a minimum. One can easily get reprimanded in my school for, what many of my teachers believe is, belittling Catholicism.


That's hard :( They'll lose people with that attitude, they can't hope that when their students go out into the real world and are affronted with this they're just going to block their ears and say "la la la la". They should talk about it openly.

Also one of the nice things about religion is its connection with other subjects like history and the development of philosophy and art, okay, the art part isn't going to create any controversy... but it's a pity to just ignore things like the church rejecting Descartes and then much later appropriating his ideas, that's fascinating!
 
  • #39


RabbitWho said:
I don't think anyone actually objects but it would just sound pretty idiotic of me to say Merry Christmas to my Chinese friends.
Me too. I'd be more likely to say 聖誕快樂.
 
  • #40


Jimmy Snyder said:
Me too. I'd be more likely to say 聖誕快樂.


Heh heh, good point, I'd be more likely to say Bones Festes!
 
  • #41


Unless I am certain of a person's beliefs, customs etc. I greet them with the usual pleasantries. I won't even use "Happy Holidays" I simply say "Hello"/"Goodbye". If someone says "Merry Christmas" to me, I will say "Merry Christmas" back. It is the same if they say "Happy Hanukkah".
 
  • #42


I know someone who wishes everyone "happy solstice" and responds to everyone sneezing with "zeus strike the sickness from you."
 

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