Because most organic molecules do not have the degree of interconnectedness required to be non-planar.
Kuratowski's theorem says that every nonplanar graph contains either a topological K
5 or a topological K
3,3. In other words, for an organic molecule to be non-planar, you have to either have:
1. Five carbon atoms such that there is a chain (of bonds and atoms) from each one to each of the others, with none of these 10 chains sharing any bonds or atoms with any of the others; or:
2. Two sets of atoms of valence 3 or more, such that there is a chain from each atom in the first set to each atom in the second set, with none of these 9 chains sharing any bonds or atoms with any of the others.
To satisfy either of these conditions, you need a lot of high-order carbons and a lot of different paths between them. That would require a large and highly interconnected molecule. But it's by no means beyond the realm of possibility, and I have to imagine that some proteins, with their abundant disulfide interconnections, are non-planar (containing K
3,3). It also seems like some people have synthesized non-planar molecules intentionally: see
this article, for example.
EDIT: After posting I found
this article which discusses the issue further. The author seems to have a bit of confusion between nonplanarity and knottedness (you can have a knotted molecule that has a planar graph), but apart from that the analysis seems good.