Benjamin Fergus-grey said:
Thanks guys, but i need to put those answers to a five year old.
One thing you need to remember about five year olds is that, with very few exceptions, they do not think at the same level as an 'educated' adult.
Piaget, an early and well respected educational psychologist, identified a number of different stages in cognitive development.
This link describes them and gives the age ranges that are associated with the different cognitive levels. For five year olds, we are talking in terms of the Preoperational stage. They are still having problems in estimating relative sizes and have not sorted out many of the basics that come later in the Concrete Operational stage.
Your problem with 'explaining' the perceived size of an object is actually more of a Formal Operational level, which can take until late teenage, early adult - or even for ever. Many people are too busy to bother with some of the intellectual processes that academics love. Many people function at a very high level, judging by the results of running a successful company or playing chess - even without thinking about the why's and wherefores.
So your five year old is more than adequately served with the 'fact' that things look smaller as they get further away. I would suggest that being able to hide several bricks at a distance behind a single nearby brick would be enough and easily demonstrated. (Concrete) It's the what happens more than the how it happens. Steer clear of "angle subtended" etc. they are more likely to look out of the window at a passing cow.
Father Ted explains
There's always a caveat with statements about psychology, of course ; many of the theories are not really falsifiable like good old Physics theories all are. But Piaget is still highly regarded and I have confirmed a lot of his ideas from personal experience of teaching and parenthood.