I don't believe you guys didn't think outside the box: What if Alien 'civilizations' (if we could call them that) are so far more advanced than us, say 3 billion years ahead.. wouldn't we just be animals to them? Or even worse, they'll see us as bacterias and would NOT want to contact such a primitive organism. And they would NOT be limited by the huge traveling distances through space since they can gather enough energy to open portals to other dimensions.
And who says Aliens that advanced aren't here already? Just like Humans using satellites to spy on Chimpanzees undetected, the Aliens could be around us, or even in some hidden dimension in front of us, spying on us. We can't see them of course, because their technology inhibits our detection... they're simply invisible.
For all intents and purposes, I think it'd be impossible for us to imagine how an Alien that's 3 billion years more advanced, would think.. It'd be like a dog trying to imagine what it's like to be living the life of a human being.. going to work, buying shares, space traveling and doing other 'human tasks'. These Aliens (I call them type V civilizations) are so far ahead of us, we simply cannot fathom their minds.
And their agenda could be totally different from ours (the Aliens, I mean)