You want to be able to describe all possible solutions. When someone asks you to solve x2 = 1, you give all possible solutions: 1 and -1. So when someone asks you to solve and ODE, you want to give all possible solutions. If you take the general solution (to the related homogenous equation) and add it to a particular solution, you are able to describe all possible solutions. Consider:
y'' - 5y' + 6y = 3
The related homogenous equation is:
y'' - 5y' + 6y = 0
which has general solution
yH(x) = ce2x + de3x
Note the above is really a family of solutions depending on the paramters c and d. A particular solution to the original equation is:
yP(x) = 1/2
So the solution to the original equation is
y(x) = ce2x + de3x + 1/2
Again, this is a family of solutions depending on paramters c and d. This fully describes the set of solutions to the original ODE. By "fully" describes I mean that:
a) if you replace c and d with any two real numbers, you will get a real function that solves the original ODE, i.e. IF y(x) = ce2x + de3x + 1/2 for some c and d THEN y(x) solves the original ODE
b) you can get EVERY solution to the ODE by plugging in numbers for c and d, i.e. IF y(x) solves the original ODE THEN y(x) = ce2x + de3x + 1/2 for some c and d.