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Let G be a finite group.
R = { (a,b) ∈ G x G | (a = b-1) ∨ (a = b)}
Show G is reflexive, symmetric, and transitive.
1) show for all a ∈ G, ∃(a,a) ∈ R.
for (a,a) to be in R, it needs to satisfy the statements: a = b-1 or a = b, ab = e and ba = e
the statement a = b is true because (a,a) implies a = a and b = a. So a = b because by substitution, a = a.
So G is reflexive.
2) show a R b <=> b R a.
case 1:
ab = e
abb-1 = b-1
a = b-1
aa-1 = b-1a-1
e = b-1a-1
a = b-1a-1a
a = b-1
ba = bb-1
ba = e
case 2:
ba = e
baa-1 = a-1
b = a-1
bb-1 = a-1b-1
e = a-1b-1
a = aa-1b-1
a = b-1
ab = b-1b
ab = e
So G is symmetric.
3) show if (a,b) and (b,c) ∈ R then (a,c) ∈ R.
We know ab = e and cb = e,
ab = cb
a = c
therefore (a,c) ∈ R, and (a,c) satisfies (a = b-1) ∨ (a = b), so G is transitive
So G can be split into equivalence classes since R is an equivalence relation.
Let their be an equivalence class of [a, b, c]. Also a =/= b, a ~ b, b ~ c, c ~ a.
Therefore ab = e and ba = e.
and ca = ac.
So b and c are inverses of a. But the inverse is unique. Therefore b = c.
So any equivalence class [a, b, c, d, ...] where a =/= b, there can only be 2 unique elements which are a and b, since all the remaining elements will just equal a or b.
Therefore any equivalence class where a =/= b is of size 2, so the set of all these elements will always be a product of 2 => it will be even.