There are more precise ways of describing what many of us are trying to tell you,
by using dot-products (which could be regarded as a way to geometrically formalize
measurements of physical quantities [modeled as geometrical objects]
with various measuring devices [modeled as certain unit vectors],
then making definitions).
The use of geometric units is done for consistency and convenience,
but one needs sufficient background understanding to see this.
In my opinion, to appreciate this viewpoint,
you need to understand the basics of spacetime geometry,
as presented in
Taylor and Wheeler's "Spacetime Physics (1st ed)" linked above.
However, I think you may benefit from
Bondi's "Relativity and Common Sense" first
because it emphasize the operational definitions of "time" and "space" coordinates
using light-rays and clocks,
and postpones the formulas and formalism (and use of geometric units) until later.
Until then, I think you are just getting caught up in the formalism
because you don't understand what the basics are (
why relativity is formulated the way that it is).
Shameless plug?
https://www.physicsforums.com/insights/relativity-using-bondi-k-calculus/
my $0.03