Hornbein said:
You did not answer my question. I find your communications patronizing to a degree that I find insulting. Do you understand what I am saying?
I understand your frustration. And personally I think you can come far understanding these conceptual issues without diving too far into the mathematics. So if I take your quote,
""Gravity is not a force," so it's effects does not cause true acceleration, so it has no effect on time."
I would say the following:
- Indeed, gravity is not considered to be a force in GR. But that's mainly a matter of speaking terms. In GR, particles follow the shortest path (geodesics) between two events when there are no forces acting on it. In curved spacetime these geodesics curve along.
- I'm not sure what "true acceleration" means, but I think she says that in GR it's ambiguous to talk about "the acceleration due to gravity" because of the equivalence principle: locally, an acceleration can be interpreted as a gravitational field. So that makes the notion of "the acceleration due to gravity" a bit complicated and is the reason why gravity is not considered to be a force in GR: a force is something which results in an acceleration.
- The last conclusion, "hence gravity has no effect on time", I do not follow. I'd say that yes, curved spacetime certainly does result in time dilation, and I don't get how she draws this conclusion in the first place from the premisse.
Hope this helps.