Should I ask a graduate student for a Letter of Recommendation?

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In an REU program after completing the freshman year in Physics, a participant is concerned about obtaining letters of recommendation for future applications. The participant works closely with a graduate student mentor and has limited interaction with the lab's principal investigator (PI), who is aware of the project but has not directly commented on the participant's work. The project is unlikely to be completed by the summer's end, raising concerns about the impression left on the mentor and PI.The discussion emphasizes that while the graduate student can provide insight, the recommendation letter should ideally come from the PI, as it carries more weight and reflects a higher level of authority. Even with limited interaction, the PI's endorsement can still be valuable for future applications. It's acknowledged that professors expect to receive requests for letters from students they may not know well, and a recommendation, even if not deeply personal, can still be beneficial. The participant is encouraged to approach the PI for a letter, despite concerns about the depth of their relationship.
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I'm currently in an REU program after finishing my freshman year of college majoring in Physics. My mentor is a graduate student, and I see him every day and we are working on an engineering project together. I see the lab's PI a couple times a week, and he is following my project, and occasionally has quite useful suggestions on how to proceed. He hasn't commented on my work, but he is aware of it, and probably occasionally discusses it with my mentor (a grad student). My work has certainly been satisfactory, but we most likely will not finish the project by the end of the summer, which was the original goal. This is not my fault, but I feel it will hurt my impression on the grad student and the PI.

This Fall when I apply for other REU programs or internships for next summer, who should I ask for a letter of recommendation, if anyone at all? Is it reasonable to ask a grad student to write one, since I'll have worked under him for 2.5 months? Or should I go ahead and ask the PI, who has limited knowledge of my potential? I wouldn't ask either, due to the limited time frame for them to get to know me, but I'm afraid that mentioning research on an application without a supporting letter of recommendation could hurt me. Thoughts?
 
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The letter of recommendation should come from the professor, not the graduate student (or at least, nominally it should be from the professor). The professor's letter will carry much more weight than one from a grad student, plus he/she in all likelihood has much more experience writing them and knows what the recipient is looking for in the letter.

It is entirely possible that the professor will assign your grad student mentor to write a draft of the letter first, which he/she will then modify after discussing the details of your work with the grad student. Even still, you should ask the professor for the letter, not the grad student.

Although you may have only known these people for a couple of months, an REU supervisor's letter can still be a strong addition to future REU / grad school programs you might apply to in the future. Mine have served me quite well over the years.
 
Don't have the grad student write the letter. It's not what's expected and he/she has had little practice writing them. Ask the professor.
 
Alright, I'll see if the professor will be willing to write one. Kind of what I expected. Thanks.

Still, is it okay to do this even though he doesn't know me that well? Is it expected to get a letter of recommendation out of an REU program, even from a professor who doesn't have all that much contact with you?
 
If the professor doesn't know you super well, obviously he won't write as strong of a recommendation as he potentially could. But you have to take what you can get. Most people have to submit something like 3 letters, not everyone has 3 people they know super well. The professors understand this and probably expect to be asked for letters even if you didn't work together super closely.
 
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