The discussion centers on the concept of time dilation and the synchronization of two clocks in different locations but using the same reference frame. It clarifies that clocks measure their own proper time rather than relying on reference frames, and that the behavior of clocks can vary based on their relative motion to a pulsar. If one clock moves toward the pulsar and the other moves away, they will not reach the same time simultaneously due to the Doppler effect. The conversation also emphasizes that synchronizing clocks across distances is complex and depends on the chosen synchronization method and the motion states of the clocks. Ultimately, the nature of time measurement is not arbitrary, as proper time remains consistent across different reference frames.