Your question is not silly at all. Well, I'm not a physicist, but I have spent good times reading some Hawkins books. As far as I know, there is some fundamental particles that transport this interaction, one of the four fundamentals ones (gravity, electromagnetic, weak and strong interaction). There is a set of particles that transpor each of them, or so it was said when quantum mechanics was surged. In particular, the electromagnetic transport particles are the virtual photons.
I usally imagine this interaction as two charges exchanging virtual particles. I mean, one particle is emited by one charge, arrives at the other and turns back transportating the fundamental information that says: hey, the other charge is there!. This virtual particles acts like messengers or something like that, it is not proved their existence. As you could imagine, it comes to a contradiction when we employ this theory with gravitational interactions. Space-time curving and photons exchanging does not seem a good combination. One might think about a black hole. It emmites radiation (Hawkins radiation), and nearby bodys such as planets feel that inmmense atraction force. The question is how this gravitational force may be transported if any mass particle (photons inclusive) is swallowed by the black hole itself. Some forum-ers that I have requested that answered me that gravitational interaction is transported via space-time curved. But I think I heard that quantum mechanics and general relativity comes into a contradiction just at this point.
Hoping that an engineering student can be answered to this physically complex question... don't be hard with your replys.