2 dimensional motion refers to motion that can be depicted on a simple graph with x and y coordinates. A parabola, as you follow it's path, changes both its x position and its y position. A projectile follows a parabolic path, and as it moves, it changes its horizontal (x) and vertical (y) positions simultaneously.
If you threw a curve ball, then it would also move sideways, as it moved forward and down, but that's getting too complicated too quickly.In the hummingbird question, this is not a projectile problem. The hummingbird moves a horizontal distance, then a vertical distance. Draw a straight line horizontally, then at the end of that line, draw one downward. This is the path of the bird.
Now find the displacement, which is the straight line between the starting point and the ending point. Do you see a triangle?