PeterDonis said:
And that means you need to read carefully and not just take what you read at face value.
Here is the longer response I promised.
At least to start, I'm going to use the Taylor/Wheeler lattice as the equivalent of training wheels (or of
@Ibix's radar gun). What can be observed using the lattice will be an invariant.
In order to do predictive physics (where I have some set of initial conditions and want to predict some ending conditions), I need to state a problem so that values are relative to the lattice, which defines the rest frame. I also need to define how the lattice's clocks are initialized (I could initialize them in any of a number of ways, but let's limit the choices to ones that implement "valid" simultaneity conventions).
If I want to start and end with invariants, I need to begin with initial conditions defined in terms of observable events. Relative speed might be an "angle in spacetime between two timelike worldlines at the point where they intersect," but I don't know how to observe that. Instead, I might state that, say, Alice is moving inertially and she was spotted at coordinate ##c_1## and time ##t_1## and coordinate ##c_2## at time ##t_2##. Alternately, I could create a special lattice observer whose job is to measure Alice's relative velocity and display it on a billboard for all to see. Since I'm talking about initial conditions, I could provide the number seen on the billboard.
The problem in the OP asked about the elapsed time in one location based on an event happening elsewhere. Using the billboard method, I could place a special observer in a position such that light from both locations reach it at the same time. If the lattice's clocks were initialized using Einsteinian synchronization, then we could place the observer midway between the two events; if some other synchronization was used, the location might be closer to one event or the other. The observer could then view an event occurring in one place, view the time on a clock elsewhere on the lattice, and display the result on a billboard.
This is a slow and crude technique, but it establishes the simultaneity of two events as an invariant physical observable. This is one of the pieces I was missing.
Once I can do this, I can use the same technique for other things that depend on a simultaneity convention: length, speed, and clock rates. In each case, I need to understand how someone can use the raw event data captured by the lattice to measure these quantities. If I go through the mental exercise, then I can verify that I start and end with invariants.
The process may be cumbersome, but at least I can understand it.
I notice that everyone seems to drop the simultaneity convention requirement. Yes, I gather that if nothing is mentioned, Einsteinian synchronization is universally assumed. But no one can predict the billboard numbers displayed unless the calculation method takes the lattice's simultaneity convention into account, so I keep including it.
PeterDonis said:
Lengths along of curves and angles between curves where they intersect. In other words, geometric invariants.
Here are two Minkowski spacetime diagrams. Both show the same worldlines relative to different frames, but the lengths (on the diagrams anyway--I realize the proper lengths are invariant) and the angles are not obviously invariant. I'm not sure how looking at a diagram clarifies what is and isn't an invariant.