What is the appropriate age for your kid to get their ears pierced?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the appropriate age for children to get their ears pierced, exploring various cultural, personal, and developmental perspectives. Participants share their experiences and opinions on when they believe ear piercing should occur, considering factors such as maturity, responsibility, and cultural norms.

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  • Debate/contested
  • Exploratory
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Main Points Raised

  • Some participants suggest that age 8 is a reasonable minimum for ear piercing, emphasizing the importance of instilling self-importance before school.
  • Others argue that even age 8 might be too young, proposing that the teenage years could be more appropriate.
  • A few participants express that ear piercing is not a significant issue, advocating for waiting until the child is responsible enough to care for the piercings.
  • Some contributors mention cultural practices, noting that in certain cultures, ear piercing is common at a very young age, such as 4 or 5 years old.
  • There are differing views on the appropriateness of piercing other body parts, such as tongues, with some suggesting that it should be reserved for when the child is older and can make their own decisions.
  • Participants share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with piercing, highlighting the variability in cultural expectations and personal comfort levels.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants do not reach a consensus on the appropriate age for ear piercing, with multiple competing views expressed throughout the discussion. The conversation reflects a range of opinions influenced by personal experiences and cultural backgrounds.

Contextual Notes

Some participants note that their views are shaped by cultural norms, personal experiences, and the perceived maturity of children, indicating that the topic is influenced by subjective factors and may vary widely among families.

  • #31
Astronuc said:
I had been considering getting an earring probably since high school, or even junior high.

At the time, I had long hair and a beard.

You had long hair and a beard in Junior high?! Lol.
 
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  • #32
DiracPool said:
You had long hair and a beard in Junior high?! Lol.
From the context, when I got my ear pierced during university.

I had stubble/whiskers on my chin around 10th grade, and I started shaving, which I disliked. I usually shaved once every other week.

In 1977, I got tired of shaving, so stopped. I shaved once or twice in May, 1981, and that was the last time.


However, that's way OT.

Please let's stay on the topic of the age at which it is appropriate for children to have pierced ears. I favor an informed, thoughtful decision precipitated by a deliberative conversation with the parents.
 
  • #33
fluidistic said:
Here in Argentina it's common to pierce the ears of female newborns.

Is this a common custom across Latin America, or is it unique to Argentina?

Perhaps this reflects my upbringing and thus my own cultural bias (see my post earlier in this thread about my mother's shock about young girls getting their ears pierced), but I've always found the idea of piercing the ears of female newborns to be bizarre.
 
  • #34
DiracPool said:
Personally, I would not be caught dead with a tattoo. Ostensibly, a tattoo is supposed to mark upon your "self" some inexuastible logic or sentiment.

Sorry, but in my eye it brands you as an idiot.

What life is about is about is change, it's about moving on, humility.

In my mind, tattooing some permanent statement on your body is really a shortsighted vision of what humanity can strive to be.

I would say there are a few notable exceptions,
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