What is the reality of finding a perfect partner?

[Hurkyl]

Ah, this is going to drive me crazy. I need to know what I did! C'mon, think! Think! This info could really come in handy.

I think, if it makes sense, that this thread made me recognize you as a girl. Until that point, I knew you were female, but only thought of you only as a person, with no regard to gender.

 

[Lisa!]

Thanks, Shawn and franznietzsche! Some how I was afraid of using this word where it's not appropriate.

 

[Evo]

I love how people talk about me liked I'm day old chopped liver. News flash...I can read these posts people! Thanks guys. I have the memory of an elephant. I won't forget this.

The doctor says that after the surgery the hump on my back won't be nearly as noticeable and with special shoes, I won't waddle nearly as much.

You guys have no idea what a knockout MIH is, she sent me a picture recently of her and her coworkers at a restaurant. HOLY MOLY, she's GORGEOUS! The Barbie avatars don't do her justice.

 

[Hurkyl]

Things like being cute or attractive are not synonymous with things like being pretty, or beautiful.

 

[Moonbear]

Things like being cute or attractive are not synonymous with things like being pretty, or beautiful.

Nice save!

 

[honestrosewater]

I think, if it makes sense, that this thread made me recognize you as a girl. Until that point, I knew you were female, but only thought of you only as a person, with no regard to gender.

Oh, I was only kidding. Thanks for thinking about it. I sometimes just notice that someone is kinda cute too. The funniest one was arildno. One day my brain just sent me the little message, "hey, he's kinda cute", and the very next day he started his 'Realizing you're gay' thread.

Hey, can anyone suggest a female equivalent of guy? Boy and girl both refer to children; men and women to adults; but guy, which I tend to use in casual conversation for adult males, especially friends or ones around my age, doesn't seem to have a partner that people use. I guess gal would work, but I don't really like it. It's not cool enough. I don't assume people mean any disrespect by using girl or anything; it's just the ambiguity and guy not having a counterpart that bothers me. What's a good term for a female guy?

 

[Evo]

What's a good term for a female guy?

It's gal. As in "guys 'n gals". Sorry, but that's the only polite word. I know, "gal" sounds cowboy.

 

[Moonbear]

Hey, can anyone suggest a female equivalent of guy? Boy and girl both refer to children; men and women to adults; but guy, which I tend to use in casual conversation for adult males, especially friends or ones around my age, doesn't seem to have a partner that people use. I guess gal would work, but I don't really like it. It's not cool enough. I don't assume people mean any disrespect by using girl or anything; it's just the ambiguity and guy not having a counterpart that bothers me. What's a good term for a female guy?

At risk of Russ giving me a hard time again...

gal seems to be the only counterpart to guy, but, yeah, it never sounds right. Maybe just because people don't use it much, so it sounds funny when you do hear it (I think of some waitress from Flo's Diner when I hear someone calling people "gals"). Oh, wait, isn't it Guys and Dolls? Well, I think we just should come up with our own term since there isn't a decent sounding one. How about omnipotent goddesses?

 

[honestrosewater]

Oh, wait, isn't it Guys and Dolls?

Yeah, but I wasn't expecting a doll to bring that up.

Well, I think we just should come up with our own term since there isn't a decent sounding one. How about omnipotent goddesses?

Maybe one that guys can spell would be better?

 

[The_Professional]

You guys have no idea what a knockout MIH is, she sent me a picture recently of her and her coworkers at a restaurant. HOLY MOLY, she's GORGEOUS! The Barbie avatars don't do her justice.

private message it to me. i'd like to see gorgeous

 

[Moonbear]

Maybe one that guys can spell would be better?

Oh, that limits things. I guess that puts us back to gals. *ducks and runs*

 

[Math Is Hard]

private message it to me. i'd like to see gorgeous

don't get too excited. By "gorgeous" Evo simply means "not completely hideous or showing physical disfigurements that would cause small children to cry and run away".

 

[Hurkyl]

Boy and girl both refer to children;

I'm of the opinion that at least "girl" has long progressed past simply referring to children. All the other terms I can imagine just don't sound right. e.g. "woman" and "female" both sound too formal, and "gal" just sounds odd.

I know a girl who uses the word "boys" extensively, the way people use "girl". It sounds perfectly normal coming from her.

 

[BobG]

private message it to me. i'd like to see gorgeous

Why the PM? It's already posted on the Internet. MIH and the gang
Math Is Hard is definitely hot, but the guys in the picture scare me.

 

[The_Professional]

Why the PM? It's already posted on the Internet. MIH and the gang
Math Is Hard is definitely hot, but the guys in the picture scare me.

yea, especially the one holding a severed head.

 

[Moonbear]

I'm of the opinion that at least "girl" has long progressed past simply referring to children. All the other terms I can imagine just don't sound right. e.g. "woman" and "female" both sound too formal, and "gal" just sounds odd.
I know a girl who uses the word "boys" extensively, the way people use "girl". It sounds perfectly normal coming from her.

Well, we've had this particular conversation at length before, and I'm not crazy enough to get into it again. The only thing I'll comment on is calling women "females." I don't mean in a clinical setting "Sex of patient: female", but in referring to an actual person informally. I've heard it from a few people recently and it sounds so strange. It's a bit too cold and impersonal sounding to hear, "I met this female at the bar last night..." I just end up wondering if they were trying to actually meet people for social reasons or if they were conducting a research study. Anyway, since I've heard a few people say it, I'm wondering if it's something that's gaining usage, or do I just hang out around strange people? They aren't all from this local area originally, so it's unlikely to be a local usage.

 

[Math Is Hard]

Why the PM? It's already posted on the Internet. MIH and the gang
Math Is Hard is definitely hot, but the guys in the picture scare me.

Oh, cool! It's me and Moonbear. But yeah, who are those gay guys in the back seat? Moonbear, I don't remember that outing, do you? I musta been hammered after a night at Tiki Bar or something.

 

[The_Professional]

Well, we've had this particular conversation at length before, and I'm not crazy enough to get into it again. The only thing I'll comment on is calling women "females." I don't mean in a clinical setting "Sex of patient: female", but in referring to an actual person informally. I've heard it from a few people recently and it sounds so strange. It's a bit too cold and impersonal sounding to hear, "I met this female at the bar last night..." I just end up wondering if they were trying to actually meet people for social reasons or if they were conducting a research study. Anyway, since I've heard a few people say it, I'm wondering if it's something that's gaining usage, or do I just hang out around strange people? They aren't all from this local area originally, so it's unlikely to be a local usage.

so what would be a more appropriate term for you? if let's say a guy is on a date with you. would you rather him say women, ladies or the opposite sex :)

 

[Evo]

don't get too excited. By "gorgeous" Evo simply means "not completely hideous or showing physical disfigurements that would cause small children to cry and run away".

She lies! I think I'll sell the picture on e-bay. "Hot brainy woman eats food". I'll start the bids at $500.

 

[The_Professional]

quit teasing

 

[BobG]

I don't know how many of you are into geocaching, but this is just plain wrong.

Bimbo Barbie

She's been traveling from cache to cache since February of 2002.

Edit: You have to at least check out the photos from New Year's Day, 2004.

 

[Moonbear]

so what would be a more appropriate term for you? if let's say a guy is on a date with you. would you rather him say women, ladies or the opposite sex :)

Women works for me. Depending on context, ladies is okay too, like if he walks up to a group of women and asks, "Do any of you ladies need another drink while I'm heading up to the bar?" But there are still times when "ladies" sounds funny...not really offensive or anything, just odd. You can't just replace "guys" in a sentence with "ladies" every time and have it work, so it's not exactly the perfect counterpart either.

 

[Moonbear]

Oh, cool! It's me and Moonbear. But yeah, who are those gay guys in the back seat? Moonbear, I don't remember that outing, do you? I musta been hammered after a night at Tiki Bar or something.

No, I don't remember it at all! I don't mind having Arildno along with us, but the one holding that head is a bit creepy. I think he must have slipped something into our drinks.

 

[Evo]

Woah! An unsolicited bid for a Moonbear picture just came in offering me $1,000!

All righty then.

Evo, dusts off her Sisterhood picture collection. Any more offers?

 

[TheStatutoryApe]

There does happen to be a pic up of MIH in the member photo thread you know.
There also happens to be a very cute pic of Rose though a more recent one would definitely be nice to see.

 

[Greg Bernhardt]

hmmm maybe the threat of banning will be enough if you don't upload the photos?

 

[franznietzsche]

hmmm maybe the threat of banning will be enough if you don't upload the photos?

I'm immune to such threats. Like Tribdog, I am practically a PF Institution!

Please don't hurt me[/color][/size].

 

[Greg Bernhardt]

I'm immune to such threats. Like Tribdog, I am practically a PF Institution!

Please don't hurt me[/color][/size].

You have thy photo!?

 

[Lisa!]

So what's happened to PF dating service? Valentine's day is near!
note that I'm not available![/size]

 

[franznietzsche]

You have thy photo!?

I have photos of me yes, but i have refused to upload them thus far.