jarednjames said:
Yep, rather close to home.
I can sit down and learn, do the work well. But try to get me to apply it creatively or 'merge' two subjects to come up with a solution and it's a no win situation. If I'm not taught (or don't learn it myself) I really struggle to do it.
Tell me A gives you X and B gives you Y and I can get you X and Y. But if you don't tell me A and B together give you Z I'll never work it out for myself (or at least not without a ridiculous amount of work that ends up taking over the main task). It's something that really annoys me.
I did well in school because what you were taught was pretty much exactly what came up on the exams (the whole "taught to pass exams" thing). There's little creativity needed when you're taught exactly what you need and shown exactly how to use it.
I always find it inspiring (with a hint of jealousy) when I see someone able to apply their knowledge creatively.
Sadly when people do that it more often induces fear. Trust me on this. People don't value things that are outside of their comfort zone. You will get closed down faster for making people appreciate that they don't have some ability they lack, than you ever would by making people appreciate it is so worthwhile and so very important to try and appreciate skills you lack. People focus on the wrong things, effort and imagination and maximising what you are good at
is what makes you successful. Learning sure helps but hell if you are not willing to imagine or try hard then you might as well just comply to the silly standards that are held as important. Couldn't hurt to appreciate something you cannot do though could it, good for you. Jealousy isn't a bad thing if it inspires you to do better. Trite but true.
It depresses me how stupid people are. I was watching a program last night about "teachers" (ie those who were successful in a field) trying to inspire people to think beyond where they are in school, by introducing adroit people that tried to fire the imagination. Like great actors, great Surgeons, great Chefs or Scientists; woodworkers, specialists in mechanical engineering. It got back to the basics of what we value. It was genuinely inspiring. Pity so many kids will be passed over because they lack merit in such scant areas of ability. It really works much better than irritating people who are bad at stuff- to think that school relies on a very slim amount of skills, and that life therefore does? What's wrong with having a high emotional quotient, with people who have good people skills but lack book smarts? With enjoying the skill and technique that comes with art and considering some jobs valuable because you do? It's a whole mess of depressing values we have.
Kids are so turned off by some of the narrow minded prejudices people have, it's very disappointing to think a gifted artist in any field isn't appreciated because he may not earn big bucks. Some of the most amazing ideas have come from some of the most unappreciated people.
It's a crazy world we live in.
We need people who are good at the basic skills, we need people who are imaginative and creative and aren't: we need all this. I despair quite frankly that a score board is more important than firing the imagination and inspiration of young people. We have gone badly wrong.
Jumping through hoops is fine, but makes sure they are the right hoops you are setting up.
That said the brain isn't cast in stone, it is extremely pliable, you can train yourself to be more creative just as you can train yourself to be better at maths or language. Sure it's not easy but then nothing worth doing is.
We all have a lot to learn about valuing abilities I think. Our parameters though are stupid, no that is an understatement they are moronic.
I'm damned good at learning stuff, my memory is pretty good given time, my creativity is high. I really do appreciate though that I am useless at music or building things with my hands, despite being ambidextrous, and my love of the art that is music. I wish I was better at this stuff. If I wanted to be I could be, but I fear no one would value my efforts because we value things that are all too meagre and we don't appreciate people unless they display exceptional ability right away, all to often. It's not the score you achieve it's the score you achieve despite your limitations that counts.