Why Can't I Ask for Help Without Being Criticized for My Age?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion centers around the challenges faced by a 13-year-old participant in seeking help on a forum, particularly regarding the responses received from other members. The scope includes social dynamics, age-related perceptions, and the appropriateness of online interactions.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses frustration over being criticized for posting frequently, emphasizing their age and desire for understanding from others.
  • Another participant suggests that they prefer to treat the original poster as an equal, regardless of age, and questions whether the original poster wants to be treated as a child.
  • A later reply acknowledges the original poster's struggle with understanding complex analogies, indicating a recognition of differing learning paces.
  • Another participant counters that everyone has blind spots in understanding, suggesting that age should not be a factor in how one is treated in discussions.
  • One participant raises a concern about the appropriateness of sharing age online, particularly for younger individuals.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express differing views on how age should influence interactions in the forum. Some advocate for treating the original poster as an equal, while others emphasize the challenges associated with their age. The discussion remains unresolved regarding the best approach to support younger members.

Contextual Notes

There are varying assumptions about the appropriateness of sharing personal information online and the implications of age on learning and communication styles. The discussion does not resolve these issues.

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To all the people that answered my previous questions with a "Stop posting so much and get it already!'reply, I AM 13 YEARS OLD! Of course I'm not going to get everything that you guys tell me, so instead of waiting weeks for a new answer to my thread, I post a new similar one. So next time try not to be so disciplinary.Give me credit for not being on my space or something and actually doing something for my future...
 
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So, you want us to treat you as a child then?

I thought you'd appreciate being treated as a person whose age is irrelevant and whose intellect is the only thing that matters... :wink:



I confess, for my own sake, I deliberately have a very short memory online. Five minutes after this post, I will have forgotten your age, and will treat you like any other member. This is deliberate, and for your benefit. (Unless you'd prefer that I read each one of your subsequent posts as if you are a child...)


P.S. It is great that you are interested in your future. I envy you. I wish I'd been interested in my future when I was 13. Heck, I wish I'd been interested in my future when I was 18... If I could back back now, I'd kick my own a$$.
 
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DaveC426913 said:
So, you want us to treat you as a child then?

I thought you'd appreciate being treated as a person whose age is irrelevant and whose intellect is the only thing that matters... :wink:
Darn you and your scientific reasoning, all I ask is that you realize that I won't be able to grasp analogies as quickly as you guys.
 
Biologik said:
Darn you and your scientific reasoning, all I ask is that you realize that I won't be able to grasp analogies as quickly as you guys.

Yes you do. We all have our blind spots. Your age does not single you out that way.
 
I believe it's inappropriate to give your age on the internet especially if you're a young kid. Please do not do so ever again.
 
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