Moonbear said:
Based on your own anecdotal evidence.
Ok, first of all, i used anecdotal evidence to counter your objections on my first post here. In your original post, 99.9% of the content was based upon such evidence. Now, that we both agree that anecdotal evidence does not denote a general trend (like you first said) this must tell you that your original post really did not say that much at all.
You have shown no evidence to back up your claims other than a few women you know, and one who claims to prefer to work with men in a documentary,
Well call it evidence or whatever, it does not matter. I gave you an example of a woman in an exceptional position who clearly agreed with the content of my message here. Other women are Marie Curie, Frieda Kahlo (Mexican painter), etc etc... Keep in mind that i only use examples of women in top positions and such examples are rare (i wonder why that is).
which says nothing about all the other women in the world.
I am not talking about all the other women in the world since 99.9 % of them are not in the professional positions that i just outlined. they are not in those positions that make an actual difference to a company or society.
Besides, preferring to work with men means nothign about what one can accomplish when working with other women,
I disagree, it means exactly that. If someone tells you that they prefer to work with you other than someone else, it's exactly because they think they will achieve more with you. No sain person is selfdestructive, you know.
it just might be that men make life a bit more interesting for women.
That, on the other hand, is very true and the same goes the other way around.
And lots of women will DISAGREE with what you are saying here too. It's ALL anectdotal, unless you'd like to cite the references for the studies saying otherwise.
I don't have references to "studies" because women in top positions are very rare. I am sure that most women that want to be in such positions, will say they want an all female staff or something. But, when they actually are in that position, they will conclude that they need men to do the job. Ask all female prime ministers for that matter. besides, Angela Merkel also said a similar thing on a public conference in the European Union.
Yes, that's what I think about it.
OK
When all you have is anectdotal evidence and a big generalization, just a few counter-examples are all it takes to dismantle your theory.

C'mon, you are saying the same thing over and over again. Haven't i already answered to this ?
Sexist people usually do refuse to accept anything that contradicts their own view of women.
Pfff,

, generalization, generalization, generalization,...
no comment
What little stories? Yours?
No, the anecdotes YOU were using in your very first post.
Because it was an excellent school where I was able to really develop leadership skills.
Ohh, and that's the only school where you could learn this ?
Or let me put it like this : Ohh, this school just happened to be all female. I mean, you found out about that later
Because it's just a bunch of stupid students that actually try something for the first time. There are no real life penalties/risks like the ones in the professional world. C'mon, don't tell me you fail to see that difference.
We all wound up in the professional world.
Well, keep in mind that the academic world is not really the professional world.
Of course, in the professional world, it's rare to have any group of only one sex...either sex. That's why I don't believe that you really know many people who have worked in such an environment who can state with any certainty how well it works.
You don't believe this ? No, problem, i don't believe you either. But it does not matter since all female groups will never occur in the professional world because of the disfunctional groupdynamic.
I've also worked in all female groups, as stated above, and have not experienced such problems.
Well can i answer like you : "i don't believe you because ..."
Please name all those "many" documentaries. Or was it just one, and one woman who had such a preference?
What does it matter if it was just one BBC documentary on Margret Thatcher ? If she said it, she said it. Look at the composition of her political cabinet. That should give you enough proof.
Actually, the studies show that women work better in groups than men. Making "sacrifices" for a group is not necessarily a good thing. If you're making a sacrifice, it means you're not contributing your best, but leaving that out for someone else to shine...that's more an individual ego-booster than a team skill. Instead, listening to the other group members and integrating the best of their ideas is a good team skill.
All these studies can be very true but they clearly do not reflect the achievements of men in both the professional and sports world. All great companies (except Estée Lauder i guess

) have been founded by men. All biggest donations to charity (Gates, Buffet, Pavarotti (War child Concerts)) have been done by men. The best music groups, artistic geniusses, best inventors... I mean , who takes such studies seriously if you look at how men can work together...
regards
marlon