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BBQgoat
My personal opinion is that generally more men are insecure/self-conscious (especially in this generation), however, maybe not to the extent women are. Any thoughts?
I think you'll find that women are just as insecure and self-conscious as men, if not more. Just think about how much time and trouble women go to picking out just the right outfit, hair, makeup, etc... How many trips to the restroom they make (you don't think they all have to pee that often).leroyjenkens said:I think women know how much men like them, so they're more secure about themselves because they know we love them no matter what.
I'm not sure if women feel the same way, so I'm pretty self-conscious around girls I like.
Evo said:I think you'll find that women are just as insecure and self-conscious as men, if not more. Just think about how much time and trouble women go to picking out just the right outfit, hair, makeup, etc... How many trips to the restroom they make (you don't think they all have to pee that often).
It is wrong to generalize by gender. Insecurity/self-consciousness depends on the individual. It is not necessarily inherent, but it is a product of one's experience and environment, and in the early years, that is mostly beyond one's control.BBQgoat said:My personal opinion is that generally more men are insecure/self-conscious (especially in this generation), however, maybe not to the extent women are. Any thoughts?
leroyjenkens said:But between men and women, I think women are more secure with themselves, because they seem more comfortable assuming the men around them want them. And they're usually right.
Maybe it's all the preparation you're talking about that makes them so secure.
leroyjenkens said:I think women know how much men like them, so they're more secure about themselves because they know we love them no matter what.
I'm not sure if women feel the same way, so I'm pretty self-conscious around girls I like.
As nice as I'm sure the spirit of this comment is don't you think it's a bit disparaging that you're reducing what women should base their self image on to the fact that some men might still love them?leroyjenkens said:I think women know how much men like them, so they're more secure about themselves because they know we love them no matter what.
zoobyshoe said:Here's an article about a study of men's insecurity:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/12/121219174331.htm
I couldn't find anything similar for women, anything that specifically focused on their insecurities about men.
Yes, there have been several studies conducted on this topic. One study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that men were more likely to feel insecure about their appearance and body image compared to women. Another study published in the Journal of Psychosomatic Research found that men reported higher levels of social anxiety and self-consciousness compared to women.
There are a variety of factors that can contribute to men feeling insecure or self-conscious. One of the main factors is societal pressure and expectations placed on men to conform to a certain standard of masculinity. This can lead to men feeling pressure to be strong, stoic, and confident, and when they fall short of these expectations, they may feel more insecure. Additionally, men may also experience insecurities related to their physical appearance, career success, and social status.
Yes, cultural differences can play a role in how men perceive and express their insecurities and self-consciousness. For example, in some cultures, men may be encouraged to show more vulnerability and emotions, which may lead to them being more open about their insecurities. In other cultures, there may be a stigma against men showing any signs of weakness, which can contribute to them feeling more pressure to hide their insecurities.
Yes, men's insecurity or self-consciousness can have a significant impact on their mental health. It can lead to conditions such as depression, anxiety, and body dysmorphic disorder. Additionally, men who feel insecure or self-conscious may engage in unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as substance abuse, which can further negatively impact their mental health.
There are several things that can be done to address and support men's insecurity or self-consciousness. One important step is to challenge societal norms and expectations placed on men and promote a more inclusive and diverse definition of masculinity. Additionally, creating a safe and supportive environment where men feel comfortable expressing their emotions and vulnerabilities can also be beneficial. Seeking therapy or support from mental health professionals can also be helpful in addressing and managing insecurities and self-consciousness.