How to make a girl fall in love with you?

Dr_Scientist

So there is this girl I like. I want to make her love me. Can anyone teach me how to?

Borek

Nope.

Astronuc

One cannot make another love one. Love is a gift given freely and not by force.

One can certainly be kind and thoughtful toward the other person of interest, but without expectation of favor in return. One could be friends with the other.

sas3

No, but I probably could teach you how to make her hate you.

Feelings are strange aren't they...

Just tell her how you feel and see what happens.

micromass

Bolding of the text is my doing.

Anyway, you sound that you care a lot about what you want. What about what she wants?? Will you make her happy? Are you honestly the best choice for her??

If you want to start a relationship, then you should just try to be yourself around her. If you think she likes you, then you should tell her how you feel.

Don't appear different than how you really are. It might work, but then she won't really love you, she'll love the role you play.

zoobyshoe

Error! Error! Error!

turbo

Rule #1 - Be nice. Rule #2 - Be nice. This is a repeating series, in case you haven't figured it out. Just be nice.

arildno

Get a friend to surreptitiously push her over a (moderately high) cliff. Be ready to take her into your arms and make her feel that you saved her from certain death.

Dr_Scientist

Ah finally some ideas coming in.. lol.

3 errors are not enough! should be 10^99 errors there.

Error! nice is not enough!

This.. is.. a perfect idea if it can work.. but unfortunately impractical for me..

Lisa!

And if he'd fail to save her...

Dr_Scientist

Well I am no superman or goku..

zoobyshoe

Evo gave the best advise once: "A confident, pleasant attitude will work wonders for you."

"Confident" is probably the more important of the two. "Nice", by itself, can present as obsequious if it's not allied with confidence.

arildno

Then he can kill himself after he has killed his friend for having killed his girl friend, topping "Titus Andronicus" in gore production.

turbo

Maybe he just could be nice, instead. I mean really decent, not sucking up or backhanded 'compliments' like "you don't sweat much for a fat girl". Be nice - that's all it takes. Decent people get a lot of attention from the opposite sex (or the same sex), but all you have to do is be nice.

Evo

Let's keep it PG in here.

arildno

Ok, I'll keep my advices strictly along the lines of Titus Andronicus, Medea and other love stories of that ilk.

sas3

This reminds me of a movie called "The Tao of Steve".