Inner Battles: Arguing with Yourself & Tips to Balance

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In summary, the conversation discusses the experience of having inner debates and struggles, whether it be with oneself or with the content being read. The speaker mentions the challenge of finding a balanced approach to learning and expresses self-doubt. However, the other person reassures them that they are often right. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the common occurrence of inner battles and the uncertainty that comes with it.
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Seems to me i do this more and more often, the result is given two options neither win, which can be both annoying and boring.
Do you have inner battles what tips the balance?
 
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Yes. I have debates with myself all the time, where i come to look for the best conclusion, if that's what you mean. Often, I have "debates" with the book I'm reading as well. I think, "in context x, is what this guy is saying true?" "What about this scenario?" "Is this even accurate?" Unfortunately, this often distracts from the reading.
 
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I'm always right.
 
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Kurdt said:
I'm always right.

The pessimist would say he's always wrong.
 
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Daniel Y. said:
The pessimist would say he's always wrong.

Hmm maybe I'm always wrong? :frown:
 
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wolram said:
Seems to me i do this more and more often, the result is given two options neither win, which can be both annoying and boring.
Do you have inner battles what tips the balance?

I often have a battle with how to go about learning a new subject. I'm still trying to find that balanced method, but maybe I'll never find one. I don't know.
 
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Kurdt said:
Hmm maybe I'm always wrong? :frown:

Not you, according to my observations.
 

1. What causes inner battles?

Inner battles can be caused by a variety of factors, such as conflicting thoughts or beliefs, external pressures or expectations, past experiences, and personal insecurities. They can also be a result of trying to balance different aspects of one's life, such as work and personal relationships.

2. How can I stop arguing with myself?

One way to stop arguing with yourself is to practice self-awareness and identify the root cause of the inner battles. This can help in understanding and addressing any underlying issues. Additionally, finding healthy ways to cope with stress and managing conflicting thoughts and emotions can also help in reducing inner battles.

3. Can inner battles be beneficial?

Yes, inner battles can be beneficial as they can lead to personal growth and self-discovery. They can also help in identifying areas of improvement and finding solutions to problems. However, it is important to find a balance and not let inner battles become overwhelming or destructive.

4. How can I maintain balance while dealing with inner battles?

Maintaining balance while dealing with inner battles can be challenging, but it is important to prioritize self-care and self-compassion. This can involve setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support from friends and family. It is also helpful to identify and focus on positive aspects of one's life.

5. When should I seek professional help for inner battles?

If inner battles are causing significant distress and interfering with daily life, it may be beneficial to seek professional help. A therapist or counselor can provide support and guidance in managing inner battles and finding healthy coping strategies. It is also important to seek help if inner battles are accompanied by symptoms of mental health disorders, such as anxiety or depression.

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