A-wal: your problem is that you can't see how the two statements
- "the free-falling object reaches the event horizon and passes through it in a finite time according to the object's own clock"
- "the free-falling object takes an infinite time to reach the event horizon according to a distant object hovering at a fixed height"
can both be true. And you won't listen to any mathematical argument to prove this.
Well, let's forget black holes and see how the above statements can both be true in the absence of any gravitation at all. Let's consider flat spacetime, i.e. no gravity, and apply the equivalence principle to the above statements. They now become
- "the inertially-moving object reaches the 'horizon' and passes through it in a finite time according to the object's own clock"
- "the inertially-moving object takes an infinite time to reach the 'horizon' according to a distant object accelerating with constant proper acceleration"
At this stage I haven't specified what the 'horizon' is in this context.
Here is a diagram that I first posted in the thread
about the Rindler metric, post #9.
Ignore the diagram on the right. The diagram on the left is a standard spacetime diagram from the point of view of an inertial observer. Vertical distances represent time and horizontal distances represent distance, both in the frame of an inertial observer. The curved black line represents an observer who is experiencing constant proper acceleration.
Each curved red line is a constant distance from the black observer as measured by himself. Each green line represents simultaneity as measured by the black observer. So the red and green lines form a grid which the black observer can use to assign space and time coordinates to every event in the triangular white region. Note there are no lines at all in the blue and yellow regions: the black observer's coordinate system never reaches these regions.
On this diagram, the speed of light is represented by any line drawn at 45 degrees. Note that it is impossible for light from any event in the blue region to ever reach the black observer. The light would have to pass from the blue region to the white region faster than light, which is impossible. Thus the border between blue and white behaves as an "apparent horizon" to the black observer.
Now suppose at the event (
t=0,
x=0) the black observer drops an apple from his spaceship. The apple will subsequently travel inertially, straight up the diagram along the line
x=0. After 10 years of its own time it will reach the point (
t=10,
x=0). It will then continue uninterrupted through the blue region.
From the black observer's coordinate point of view we must measure the motion using the red and green gridlines.
Distance is obtained from the red lines so we see that when the apple reaches the blue/white horizon it has crossed 10 red lines, so the distance coordinate is −10 light years.
Time is obtained from the green lines so we see that when the apple reaches the blue/white horizon it has crossed an infinite number of green lines, so the time coordinate is ∞ years.
And what does the black observer actually see with his eyes? Well once the apple is in the blue zone, no light from the apple can reach the black observer. So the black observer never sees the apple cross into the blue zone. As it approaches the blue/white 'horizon' the apple appears to slow down and takes an infinite time to reach the 'horizon'. This should be clear if you consider light being emitted at an angle 45 degrees upwards by the apple as it travels vertically upwards on the diagram.
So we see that an inertial observer and a non-inertial observer can disagree over whether something takes a finite or infinite time.
(If there's anyone reading this who doesn't share A-wal's allergy to mathematics, you can get more details by looking up "Rindler coordinates" or "Rindler metric", or follow the blue link earlier in this post and the rest of the thread it is in.)