This was very confusing thread. I'll write the definition of the adjoint that I have just encountered.
Let T:D(T)->H be an operator, possibly unbounded, so that D(T) is dense in H. We then define
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D(T^*) = \{ x\in H\;|\; \underset{y\in D(t), \|y\|=1}{\textrm{sup}} |(x|Ty)| <\infty\},<br />
and it is possible to define T*:D(T*)->H by setting (T*x|y) = (x|Ty) for all x in D(T*) and y in D(T).
I don't know the details of the proof needed for this definition yet, but this looks good anyway.
Considering Hallsoflvy's first post, I think my attention was drawn to this
The Hermitian (more correctly, the Hermitian adjoint) of an operator only apply to operators on vector spaces over the complex numbers.
too much, while I didn't know what was relevant. The rest of the post was already containing the answer, which was the same answer as given by Galileo... But I'm not convinced that everything was fine with the sets U and V here
If U and V are any inner product spaces and T is a linear transformation from U to V, the "adjoint" of T, T*, is a linear transformation from V to U such that, for any u in U and v in V, <Tu,v>= <u,T*v>. The two inner products are taken in V and U respectively.
With arbitrary norm spaces the adjoint would be between the duals, T*:V*->U*. With Hilbert spaces, I assume, it goes like I showed now.
Anyway, my difficulty rose from the fact that I only knew T

->H and T*

->H case earlier with bounded operators. Also, if a bounded operator T:D(T)->H is defined on a dense subset, it can always be extended to the H uniquely.
Looking back at the Galileo's answer, I should have been able to ask about the definition of the adjoint... but you know, it's so difficult to keep the thoughts clear
