girlwonder said:
Anyway, if B is contained by A and both are accelerating towards each other at a constant rate, wouldn't you agree that at the point where they touch the kinetic energy would increase over a period of time?
If the main thing you're concerned about is two objects pushing against each other, here's another example. Suppose we have two giant cubes--planet-sized, or at least asteroid-sized--mutually attracted by gravity, with a surface of each cube pressed against the other's surface. If something is trapped in between the two surfaces, it will experience a tremendous force from each side, squashing it flat as a pancake.
Now, as I said before, the equivalence principle is understood only to work as you zoom in on a small region of spacetime, so that tidal forces become negligible--the jargon for this would be something like "general relativity reduces to special relativity
locally". So obviously when thinking about the equivalence principle, we can't consider a region large enough to encompass the full mass of each cube--the gravitational force would vary considerably in force and direction along a line from the center of one cube to the center of the other, for example. But you might think that even if you zoomed in on a small region where the surfaces of each cube were pressed against each other, there would be a problem with the equivalence principle because the force still wouldn't be uniform--an object squashed in the middle is experiencing a strong force in one direction from cube A, and a strong force in the opposite direction from cube B. The important thing to realize is that these equal and opposite forces in your small region are
not gravitational. In your small region, the gravitational force should be pretty much uniform--in fact, if the cubes are equal in size and mass, there will be no significant gravitational force in that region. Instead, the force pressing the squashed object together is electromagnetic, it's the force that keeps the material that the cube is made out of basically rigid, so that if you push strongly on one side, the other side must move along with it. The
average gravitational force throughout each cube is pulling each one strongly towards the other one, and individual regions which themselves are not experiencing much gravity are pulled along with the rest due to these electromagnetic bonds between atoms.
So, if you looked at the small chunks of each cube contained within your small region, and then you transported these two chunks into an identically-shaped region of deep space with no matter outside the region to create gravity, and you accelerated the region in such a way as to duplicate whatever gravitational force was experienced in the original region (again, if the cubes were identical in size and mass the gravity in the original region would be negligibly different from zero, so you wouldn't have to accelerate the second region in deep space at all),
and you duplicated the electromagnetic forces on the
boundary of the original region which were causing the two chunks of cube within that region to be pressed against each other so forcefully, then in this case there would be no significant difference between what would be experienced within this second region in deep space and the original region which was surrounded by those giant cubes. So there is no problem with the equivalence principle here--as long as you pick a
small region within a gravitational field, then if you look at all the objects and non-gravitational forces both within and on the boundary of that region, then if you duplicate the same objects and non-gravitational forces in a similar region in deep space, and accelerate it to match the gravitational forces felt in the original region within the gravitational field, then measurements made within either region will give all the same results. And remember, because your first region within the gravitational field must always be small enough so that the gravity within the region is essentially uniform (no tidal forces), this means the second region in deep space just needs a single uniform acceleration, you never need to accelerate different parts of it in different ways to duplicate gravitational forces in different directions.