Anybody not in the mood for christmas?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around differing attitudes towards Christmas, exploring themes of commercialization, personal enjoyment, cultural significance, and social gatherings. Participants express a range of feelings about the holiday, from skepticism about its commercialization to appreciation for its social aspects.

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Main Points Raised

  • Some participants argue that Christmas is overly commercialized and serves primarily as an economic boost, comparing it to other holidays like Valentine's Day.
  • Others express enjoyment of Christmas for its festive decorations and the opportunity to gather with friends and family, emphasizing the spirit of giving.
  • A participant mentions the pressure of Christmas music and the overwhelming nature of holiday shopping, suggesting that avoiding malls can improve one's mood about the holiday.
  • Concerns are raised about the emotional toll of the holiday season, including increased rates of depression and financial strain due to holiday spending.
  • Some participants reflect on the cultural differences in celebrating Christmas, noting how secularization affects the holiday's perception in different countries.
  • There are personal anecdotes about the significance of Christmas as a time to reconnect with old friends and family, contrasting with feelings of isolation or discontent expressed by others.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally express a mix of agreement and disagreement, with no consensus on the value or meaning of Christmas. Some appreciate the holiday for its social aspects, while others criticize its commercialization and emotional impact.

Contextual Notes

Participants' views are influenced by personal experiences and cultural backgrounds, leading to a variety of perspectives on the holiday's significance and impact. There are unresolved tensions regarding the balance between celebration and commercialization.

Who May Find This Useful

Individuals interested in cultural discussions about holiday practices, the impact of commercialization on traditions, and personal reflections on social gatherings during festive seasons may find this discussion relevant.

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Benzoate said:
I think this holiday is over-the-top and hyped up by the media way too much. To me , christmas is just another excused to waste money on useless items that you will probably replaced the next time christmas comes around! To me christmas is no more different than Valentine's day : There all just another excuse to boost the economy. Not that I'm against practicing capitalism. But please see this holiday for what it is and its certainly not magical . There isn't anything magical about it capitalism at its peak. I The only people who will enjoy christmas the most are people under twelve. College students will also enjoy christmas the most because they get a month off to stray away from school for awhile to relax. I don't understand why people over 25 who don't have any children enjoy this holiday so much. You can be around family anytime of the year . In fact, I don't think I want to be around a lot of people in the winter; I want to stay in bed for awhile and not talk to anybody until their isn't an inch of snow left on the ground.


i NEVER used to like christmas, because people hustle and bustle around getting useless ornate objects and my under-privileged family couldn't afford much... but i liked the blinky lights on the christmas tree and i loved sneaking in the gifts or trying to find where my mom might have hid them... i joined the military reluctantly [still hating it] and now I am clear across the country longing to be home just for the taste of yummy cookies and putting the angel on the tip of the tree. I am working christmas, just like i work thanksgiving and they want me slaving away on new years too. i would kill for the holiday spirit. enjoy what you got, even if its a phoney christmas card with no money inside and signed "love somebody" inside because its better than being away from anyone and everyone and working on a day people normally have off.
 

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