The placement of neutrons and protons within an atom is not fixed, as they move relative to each other inside the nucleus. Neutrons and protons occupy the nucleus, while electrons exist in orbitals around it. The concept of polarity does not determine weight distribution within the atom. There are no definite boundaries for the nucleus or the atom, only probable locations for these particles. Overall, the structure of an atom is dynamic and lacks a lopsided weight distribution based on particle placement.