Sorry, this was a eureka moment I had while listening to Leonard Susskind's Black Hole Wars. I will have to re-download the audiobook so I can find the exact quote so I can say exactly how it influenced my thoughts on the question exactly. Basically, he made a comment about quantum systems being time symmetric and not being able to draw an arrow of time due to entropy for those systems, so how would a large bose-einstein condensate interact in terms of time with other massive astronomical systems? The bosons would curve spacetime in some way which would make them have an impact on other astronomic phenomena and vice versa so what would the spacetime of the bec look like and how would that differ from say a bunch of entangled photons interacting on the subatomic level? Also, would it be possible to sustain the the condensate and scale it up? For example say you had a collection of bosons with 3 solar masses encased in a sort of sheath in vacuum what would the condensate look like as it collapsed so a singularity? I am trying to come up with "thought experiments" that could be avenues for GR and QFT unification
I have only taken up to electromagnetism though, so I am still new to upper level physics esp the mathematics