I am sorry for my repeatation, I also know you know this much ..I just would like to talk about the case you just gave in your Original post.
You were making so many 'if_ies' and that would turn your clauses to be unreal conditions.
An individual doesnot mean anything to the whole community, but the whole community is created by many individuals...I say "many" because no individual can live without his/her community or her partners, nextdoor friends etc...or build himself a castle. But since that relationship always and always comes into existence to sustain the culture, and civilization, etc, each individual must have his/her responsibilities to do something for the community.
Plus, it also depends on many different situations, you can say you won't go for that poll, and you can even do it, stay home and watch tv, who cares ?
If tommorow, my white rabit gets sick and unfortunately dies, will the whole world die then ? But the fact is that it will be me who will be really sad about it. It is just a really "normal relationship" between me and my pet, it means nothing, not big problem at all. But what if we take into consideration something much bigger, more important ?
"Bigger, Important" in this case should be thought in a general way, and for all[/color], not for one[/color]. The main problem is that we don't usually think about this without ourself[/color]. It is hard to it conversely...
I can't do it because its me who can't do it and that's my problem which might[/color] also cause troubles to other people. Like my little Shay-the sick white rabit-it is her own problem that makes me really sad if she 's gone.
However and again that is also my own problem, because she is mine, and that is our relationship...you also have your own ones and we are creating our society...So, go for that poll, because people do, you must do. [/color]It is true that no one thinks the same way as you think, only what you do must be the same as what people do...in some cases, in its own sense...