I really appreciate all the effort and expertise my novice questions have garnered here. The notion of colliding with a single hydrogen atom at ~c being dangerous is thought-provoking, as are the Doppler shifting of even radio waves into the gamma end of the EM spectrum. (Will have to plan my trip pretty carefully.)
To my (still confused) thinking, the constancy of c in all inertial frames, waning velocity addition under constant acceleration/thrust (implying increasing mass) and length foreshortening all spring from time dilation. If my clock's running relatively slow then my 300,000,000 M has to be a greater distance than your 300,000,000 M for our measurements of c to be the same. Similarly my 1 second of thrust is going to be a lot more thrust than your 1 second of thrust. But in my ~c frame of reference, my 1 second (e.g., your 100 years) of thrust is still going to feel like 1 second, consume 1 second's worth of fuel, and increase my velocity by the same amount it has every preceding second. Only to you (my "stationary" observer) will it have taken 100 year's worth of time and fuel? Like, if I accelerate a particle to .999999999997 c within a stationary frame (accelerator) using external (magnetic) energy in say a minute, from the particle's "perspective" it may have been accelerated to this velocity in a nanosecond.