Chance to Ask Out Girl At Work - Wish Me Luck!

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A user expresses interest in a coworker who recently became single after a breakup. They plan to ask her out directly at work, seeking advice on how to approach her. Suggestions from others include avoiding mention of her ex-boyfriend and being more specific in the invitation rather than using vague terms like "sometime." The user shares their past experiences with rejection and expresses hope for a positive outcome. However, after attempting to ask her out, they report disappointment, as she seems to still be emotionally tied to her previous relationship. The discussion shifts to reflections on dating experiences and the challenges of navigating romantic interests in a work environment, with some participants encouraging resilience and openness to new opportunities.
  • #31
Chrono said:
Perhaps we should extend it?

Why?

31 days should be enough... I hope.

Don't be too focused on really liking a girl. If she seems interested, go for it. It isn't necessary that you know her for a long time.

I plan on asking anyone if all goes bad. Just to try because you never know.
 
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  • #32
JasonRox said:
I plan on asking anyone if all goes bad. Just to try because you never know.

With her I just wanted to ask. I'm pretty confident that if I could only ask that she'd agree to go out with me.
 
  • #33
JasonRox said:
I said no by accident. I actually said no to the plans of the date. Also, at the time I didn't know anything about her or even her age!

Yes, I want her. Yes, I'm stupid.

Are you sure she isn't just making you sweat? The ladies, they don't take well to being turned down flat. Give it a second shot, and put some egg on your face when you do.
 
  • #34
DaveC426913 said:
Are you sure she isn't just making you sweat? The ladies, they don't take well to being turned down flat. Give it a second shot, and put some egg on your face when you do.

Of course I'll ask again, but if I get shot down again. :mad:

...well being a nice guy (really I am) I wouldn't do anything.

Note: I come off rude sometimes because it's hard to describe thought online. Being one of those who don't spend hours online, I haven't developped that skill. One day I will.
 

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