I am not sure what you are asking.
You appear to like thinking around a subject - this is great, but Physics Forums doesn't spoon feed answers. So this is meant as encouragement.
Here are some sketches to aid discussion.
The first set continues the motorway bridge theme. There are five ways shown to support load L above a span S.
1) An arch
2) A beam
3) A frame
4) A triangle
5) Despite the longer length, supports for bridges above motorways are usually raked back as shown
Each of these transfer the load L to the supports at ground level by different mechanisms
What do you think about each? In particular why do you think we rake back the supports as in (5)?
A curved shape is not the only strong shape. (1) and (4) have the same strength.
The second set shows cross sections of beams.
The further you can get the bulk of the material from the middle the stronger the beam. This is why we do not use round bars as beams. The steel is just as strong but the shape is wrong. We use [itex]I[/itex] sections.
Similarly if the rectangles were scaffold planks, I'm sure you have experience of which way round is stronger as the rectangles show.