phinds said:
But if we want to know the age of the universe, the observed passage of time near a black hole is irrelevant.
More precisely, when we talk about "the age of the universe" we've just chosen not to talk about the passage of time near a black hole, although that would be different.
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@Andy DS, an analogy is speeds. The speed limit on most roads around here is 30mph. But the Earth is doing about 20km/s around the Sun - how can we stay below 30mph when we're doing 20km/s just sitting here? The point, of course, is that by "30mph" we actually mean "30mph
compared to the surface of the Earth where I am". Nobody bothers saying the bit in italics because people just understand it (possibly due to never questioning whether it could mean anything else, one suspects), but the qualification is important because it is also true that I'm currently doing 20km/s around the Sun, and many other speeds with respect to many other reference points.
That doesn't mean that it's impossible to define my speed. It just means that "my speed" needs a bit of qualification - my speed
compared to what. Similarly with the age of the universe - strictly we should say "the age of the universe
as measured by an observer who sees (and has always seen) the CMB as isotropic". But, like the ground frame in the speed limits, the isotropic-CMB observer is an obvious (obvious to cosmologists, anyway) type of observer to use to define age. Most people are either aware of which type of observer is being used in unqualified statements about the age, or aren't aware of or interested in the subtleties. Welcome to the first group.
