Let's go back to your post #3 where you wrote
leo. said:
... we have that \Phi(x) = \Phi'(x'),\quad \mathbf{A}(x) = \vec{\beta}\Phi'(x').
I agree with this.
But we have {x'}^0=x^0 - \vec{\beta}\cdot \mathbf{x} and \mathbf{x}'=\mathbf{x}-x^0\vec{\beta}. Thus since x^0 = ct we get t' = t - \mathbf{v}\cdot\mathbf{x} and \mathbf{x}'=\mathbf{x}- \mathbf{v}t.
This isn't necessarily the correct transformation of the spacetime coordinates of an event ##(t, \mathbf x)## between the ##K## and ##K'## frames since these transformation equations assume that the origins of the two frames coincide at ##t = t' = 0##. But, this might not be true for the frames ##K## and ##K'## used here. However, you can use these Lorentz transformation equations to relate space and time
intervals between the two frames.
That is, if ##a## and ##b## are two events with coordinates ##(ct_a,\mathbf x_a)## and ##(ct_b, \mathbf x_b)## in frame ##K## and coordinates ##(ct_a', \mathbf x_a')## and ##(ct_b', \mathbf x_b')## in frame ##K'##, then ##(\Delta ct,\Delta \mathbf x) \equiv (ct_b - ct_a, \mathbf x_b - \mathbf x_a)## and ##(\Delta ct',\Delta \mathbf x') \equiv (ct_b' - ct_a', \mathbf x_b' - \mathbf x_a')## will be related by the Lorentz transformation equations.
You can let event ##a## correspond to the event where the dipole is located at position ##\mathbf x_0(t_a)## in frame ##K##. Let event ##b## be the observation of the potentials at the field point ##\mathbf x_b## in frame ##K## at the instant ##t_b## that is simultaneous with event ##a## according to frame ##K##. That is, ##t_b = t_a## for frame ##K##.
In frame ##K## the space interval between the two events is ##\Delta \mathbf x = \mathbf x_b - \mathbf x_a = \mathbf x_b - \mathbf x_0(t_a) = \mathbf R(t_a) ##.
In frame ##K'##, the space interval between the two events is ##\Delta \mathbf x' = \mathbf x_b' - \mathbf x_a' = \mathbf r'##.
The Lorentz transformation to order ##\beta## then gives ##\mathbf r' = \mathbf x_b - \mathbf x_0(t_a) = \mathbf R(t_a)##
There is a complication due to the fact that events ##a## and ##b## don't occur simultaneously in frame ##K'##. That is, according to frame ##K'##, event ##b## doesn't occur at the same moment that the dipole is at rest at the origin of frame ##K'##. But I think you can argue that to order ##\beta## this time difference does not matter when calculating the potential in frame ##K'##. That is, ##\Phi'(\mathbf r', t_b') \approx \Phi'(\mathbf r', t_a')## to order ##\beta##.