First you need to be able to state, using the ε-δ definition of this limit, what is meant by the statement, limx→2 x2 = 4 .
Basically in ε-δ language we have:
Given any ε > 0, there exists (indeed we can find what its value is) a δ > 0 (this δ generally depends on ε) such that for any x that satisfies 0 < |x - 2| < δ it is true that |x2 - 4| < ε .
Often in figuring out what δ has to be, you will do some "scratch work" -- sort of working backwards. Then you turn things around and write up a nice proof, and in the process look like a genius.
Your statement ε/|x + 2| = δ can be thought of as the result of some of that scratch work. However, there is the problem that x is in that expression.
One way around this (for this particular limit) is put a bound on |x + 2| . To explain that, think about this ε-δ game that's being played here. It's really only a challenge when ε is small. For instance, if δ =1, then you would need an ε ≥ 5 . In other words, a δ of 1 will work just fine for any ε that's 5 or larger.
What is the largest value |x + 2| has for those values of x satisfying 0 < |x - 2| < 1 ?