Whether a mutation is harmful, neutral, or beneficial is hard to tell.
Those that kill you at birth are deffinetly harmful, but what about others?
You can't say that the only harmful mutations are those that kill you, in fact, you can't even discerne every other mutation unless you put it in "context", aka: in the invironment.
Phosphorescent fur could save a mouse from a cat, but it would later bring it's doom, at the hand of an over-curious kid.
You get my point :) It's too random to provide numbers, but generally, I'd say neutral are the most frequent.
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