First, let's get the terms clear.
There is a reaction force from the wall all the time the two are in contact, and at each instant it is equal and opposite to the force the ball exerts on the wall.
I think you mean the rebound forces, i.e. the force pair (action and reaction) between ball and wall during the ball's expansion phase.
By "impact force/reaction force" I presume you mean the normal force generally, i.e. not separating compression phase and expansion phase.
Next, how are you defining total force here? The integral wrt time will give the change in momentum, while wrt to displacement will give change in KE.
Not sure what you are asking re "the hotter the ball gets". During early play the ball gets hotter, increasing its internal pressure and improving its bounce. The duration reduces, so the forces increase.
If you are asking how the amount of the temperature increase during a single bounce correlates with the magnitude of the forces, yes, I think that a cold ball will bounce less efficiently and so heat up more, and the forces will be less. But I see no general principle here applicable to other contexts; it is just a result of the characteristics of a squash ball. Is that what you had in mind in post #55,
@Dale ?
That formula will only give you the average force over each time interval. You could model it as a spring to find the curves for each phase (one against time, one against displacement). As it goes from compression phase to expansion phase, the force will drop fairly suddenly, so the force/displacement curve will return via a lower path.
The area bounded by the whole curve in the force/displacement graph shows the KE lost. I'm not a thermodynamicist, but I believe the right description is that during compression KE is turned into internal energy, some of the rubber, but mostly of the gas in the ball. During expansion, most of that turns back into KE. What remains as internal energy will dissipate out over time as heat.