First, thanks for replying!
I don't think that the problem is my textbooks, they are really good. I think that I'm the problem. I don't have problems with doing the math, I just have a problem with doing the physics that relates to the math. I know that sounds weird.
I think that part of the problem is that I hadn't taken any physics courses when I completed the multi-variable maths, and I'd like something to work with to understand the physics better. Some sort of applied math book perhaps? I have several calculus books (Stewart, Anton, Rogawski, one more but I can't remember the author). Just seems that the application sections are lacking in the physics problems. Usually they don't even bother to include units, since they are more concerned about teaching calculus.
My physics book doesn't really look at things from a realistic point of view (almost all problems are set up to cancel out half the problem when vectors are considered, for instance). Which is great as far as learning how to do the physics. I just want to know more about the relationship between the conservative forces and the potential fields.
I'm not saying that a book that used more complicated examples would be better (I'm sure those are easy to find!) After doing a problem that (using my earlier example) cancels out everything in the y-direction, doing a problem that didn't have the y-direction cancel would just be practice/busy work.
In short, I'm new to physics, and I would definitely like to understand it better. I completely understand if I'm putting the cart before the horse in wanting to know about these things so early on in my class sequence.