Originally posted by Mentat
Devilin, the answer is: Neither. It is not a push or a pull, because there is no such thing as force. Before you right me off as a kook, I should explain. You see, Einstein postulated General Relativity, and it is the currently accepted theory of gravity (though some do disagree). In General Relativity (GR), what we think of as the "force" of gravity is really just a result of the curvature of spacetime.
In case you haven't heard of anything like this before, I'll post an analogy: Imagine a two-dimensional "flat man", who lives his life out on a piece of paper (which will represent the Universe altogether). Now, let's say that I (three-dimensional God) bend the piece of paper, right in front of where the flat man was about to walk. Obviously, he would move in a "crooked" path, due to the bent nature of the space he's walking on, but as far as he's concerned there must be a force that is either pushing or pulling him to move in that direction.
Does that make sense?