Neutrinos is a classic example mentioned by Chronos. It is also a weakly interactive particle.
here is a quote from Griffiths "Introductory to Elementary particles"
"By 1950, then, there was compelling theoretical evidence for the existence of neutrinos, but there was still no direct experimental verification. A skeptic might have argued that the neutrino was nothing but a bookkeeping device-a purely hypothetical particle whose only function was to rescue the conservation laws. It left no tracks, it didn't decay; in fact, no one had ever seen a neutrino do anything. The reason for this is that neutrinos interact extraordinarily weakly"
Neutrinos and dark matter both carry similar weakly interactive characteristics, both are affected by gravity.
Neutrinos are so weakly interactive that it can penetrate a 1000 light years of lead without an interaction.
Neutrinos were later proved to exist by experimentation at the Savannah river nuclear power station by Cowan and Reines in the later 50's ( Cowan-Reines reaction) and also by the( Davis reaction). The lepton rules were described in the 1953's by Konopinski and Mahrnoud ( Rules which describe which reactions will work and which that don't)
This allowed identification of whether they detecting neutrinos or anti-neutrinos etc.
the dark acronym used in dark matter isn't due to it being so much missing mass or a placeholder. We know without very little doubt that the mass is there.
the problem is we have very little understanding of what that mass is made up of. This is due to not having any observed interactions other than gravity. We have not acheived sufficient energy scales in nuclear reactors or particle colliders is one possible reason. This would imply that it is a very heavy particle. Its low interaction implies that it's net charge is neutral, as well as being a possible spin zero particle.
The properties we do know of dark matter due to being so weakly interactive but at the same time not able to be a neutrino type (again due to its properties). Does not fall into any standard particle member or group. The organization and indeed the groups they fall into are determined by its appropriate reaction rules.
google such examples as the Eightfold-Wayin which includes the baryon octet, meson octet and baryon-decuplet.
Understanding of the above was further increased by understanding what flavor interactions can occur (quarks and gluons) described by the baryon de-cuplet and meson nonet.
dark matter doesn't fall into any of these tables I mentioned.
that should give you some idea of the complexity of problems due to dark matter to be resolved without providing an entire course of particle physics. Hope that helps
the above can be found in
http://www.amazon.com/dp/3527406018/?tag=pfamazon01-20
his coverage of the history of discovery of elementary particles is a good read. As well as his teachings
edit: also keep in mind the above tables named, represent earlier developments and understanding of today's standard model