A 3-foot rose bush on a balcony has become infested with spider mites, despite attempts to wash them off and using insecticides like Raid, which worked on other plants. The owner is seeking effective, permanent solutions to eliminate the mites before bringing the rose inside for winter. Suggestions include using a specialized spider mite killer, repotting the bush with new soil, and ensuring thorough cleaning of the roots and leaves. Canola oil was mentioned as a successful treatment for other plants, but caution was advised against using it on the rose bush. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing the soil as a potential source of reinfestation and the need for ongoing care to help the plant recover.