And how does graviton escape the event horizon? People say it's because those gravitons are "virtual particles" and can travel faster than light, yet many of the posts i read on here say virtual particles dont even exist. Also, gravity TRAVELS at the speed of light, if the sun is suddenly gone we'll still feel its gravity, so please don't tell me somehow the gravity from a black hole manages to travel faster than light. Doesn't this prove gravitons are wrong, and gravity really is curved spacetime? Or uses some other mechanism not the same as the other 3 forces?