How Does Personal Transformation Impact Finding Love?

[aim1732]

Two years here,I can tell you---Pfers are funny.The funniest,smartest people.Poor Elabed Haider!

 

[khemist]

man i know you are making fun of me , but 3 years without a date , don't you think its a bit harsh??

how about you just man up?

if anything i have learned about relationships, not being proactive is the first step to failure. be a man, a confident one, and things will happen.

 

[lisab]

man i know you are making fun of me , but 3 years without a date , don't you think its a bit harsh??

No, he's not making fun of you at all...he's making a joke of the unusual way he met the girl of his dreams.

 

[Frankly]

Finding the girl of your dreams is easy: just go to sleep. I know nothing about your dreams, but most likely your dream girl doesn't exist, and even if she does, the chances of her wanting to have anything to do with you are probably nil. If you want to live in reality and have a real relationship with a real woman, you need to forget about dream girls. Real women are human, like you. They have personality flaws, aren't supermodels, and their poop stinks, just like yours. As soon as you find yourself able to live with someone who is just as imperfect and human as you are, you'll find happiness.

 

[elabed haidar]

okay that is fine with me frankly , i know that girls don't have to be the key to your happiness , but is has been a while, that's all what I am saying

 

[JaredJames]

You keep saying "it's been a while". I don't think a relationship is the main thing on your mind...

 

[viko]

fap fap fap

 

[elabed haidar]

man when some one stays for three years without knowing a girl , it really seems hard . I am not looking for a relationship to have fun , I've finished my first year in physics , and in two years , i want to contiune my studies in australlia , and it would mean a lot to me and my family to find that special girl ,that is all .
i know it seems silly , but that is what i wanted to say

 

[JaredJames]

man when some one stays for three years without knowing a girl , it really seems hard . I am not looking for a relationship to have fun , I've finished my first year in physics , and in two years , i want to contiune my studies in australlia , and it would mean a lot to me and my family to find that special girl ,that is all .
i know it seems silly , but that is what i wanted to say

You plan on moving to Australia and yet expect to have found "the one" - who is willing to go with you or stick around without you?

 

[elabed haidar]

hehehehe, first i am traveling to australlia just to contiune my studies .
second , man if i tell any girl here that i was born in asutrallia they 'll run towards me .

 

[JaredJames]

hehehehe, first i am traveling to australlia just to contiune my studies .
second , man if i tell any girl here that i was born in asutrallia they 'll run towards me .

Then I'd say this thread is somewhat premature - by however long you plan to stay there.

 

[elabed haidar]

well i was thinking that when i finish the three years in physics or electronics bachelor;
(ps i really don't know which is better for me)
and then go to australlia and contiune my studies as a professional engineer after that i hope that i could find a decent job ; woth good money ; and be able to visit my country as much as I can .
For now i secured my place as a second year in either pure physics or electronics

 

[JaredJames]

Unless you plan to find someone in Australia, it's not a plan that will easily accommodate a relationship at home.

 

[elabed haidar]

actually my aunt lives there and we have a lot of people there we know

 

[JaredJames]

actually my aunt lives there and we have a lot of people there we know

So? The way I'm reading it, it sounds like you want someone in your home country.

If you want someone in Australia, that's fine, but that would mean the same thing in reverse.

Why not just wait until you're settled somewhere?

 

[elabed haidar]

that is the best solution i guess , but you know sometimes , at some point a person should release everything thought he has in his mind , so thank you jaredjames