I'm a freshman, will you be my friend?

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The discussion revolves around the social dynamics and experiences of college freshmen seeking friendships on campus. Participants share their personal anecdotes and opinions regarding interactions with freshmen, exploring themes of social awkwardness, the desire for connection, and varying attitudes towards making friends.

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Main Points Raised

  • Some participants express frustration with freshmen approaching them for friendship, describing the interactions as awkward and uncomfortable.
  • Others argue that freshmen are simply seeking connection in a new environment and that dismissing them can be unkind.
  • A few participants share positive experiences of helping freshmen and making friends, suggesting that these interactions can be beneficial.
  • There are differing opinions on the appropriateness of being friends with freshmen, with some participants advocating for openness and others expressing reluctance.
  • Some participants reflect on their own experiences as freshmen and upperclassmen, noting the pressures and expectations that come with making new friends.
  • Several comments highlight the awkwardness of initiating conversations with strangers and the challenges of socializing in a new setting.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally do not reach a consensus, with multiple competing views on the nature of interactions with freshmen and the appropriateness of forming friendships with them. The discussion remains unresolved regarding the best approach to these social situations.

Contextual Notes

Some participants mention the influence of orientation activities and social expectations on freshmen, suggesting that these factors may contribute to their behavior when seeking friendships. There are also references to personal preferences and experiences that shape individual attitudes towards making friends.

  • #61
turbo-1 said:
It's also a sure-fire hit if there's a twinkle in her eyes indicating interest, and you say "You have such pretty eyes." Nothing brings a blush to a lady's cheeks faster than an honest and inoffensive little compliment.

WARNING: Do not try this at home.
 
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  • #62
thank god I am not that kind of freshman :)
friends? who needs'em
 
  • #63
tribdog said:
wow, how tragically, poetically descriptive.

It's deadly... seriously becareful!
 
  • #64
mjolnir80 said:
friends? who needs'em
you will find friends if you look for them, outside your house for example. I have plenty and none of them is smarter than me
 
  • #65
turbo-1 said:
It's also a sure-fire hit if there's a twinkle in her eyes indicating interest, and you say "You have such pretty eyes." Nothing brings a blush to a lady's cheeks faster than an honest and inoffensive little compliment.

That will for sure make a lady blush and then she will deny it :rolleyes:
 
  • #66
The freshman girls are a bit young for me......who am I kidding, no their not. But I do prefer to hit on older women. "You know, my two favorite things are commitment and changing myself".
 
  • #67
Topher925 said:
The freshman girls are a bit young for me......who am I kidding, no their not. But I do prefer to hit on older women. "You know, my two favorite things are commitment and changing myself".

You could use the "Women are like wine, the older they are the finer they taste" line :wink:
 
  • #68
that's much better than"...the older they are the looser the cork."
 
  • #69
tribdog said:
that's much better than"...the older they are the looser the cork."

lol!
 
  • #70
Oh, guys...lol!
 
  • #71
So, so bad...lol!
 

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