marlowgs said:
It makes G.R. a lot easier to understand if you can say that gravitational length contraction is the reciprocal of gravitational time dilation just as it is for S.R., and time dilation just uses the escape velocity (free falling frame velocity) in the Lorentz transformation.
The fact that ##g_{tt}\, g_{rr}## is not 1 in other coordinates suggests that while this interpretation may be "simple", it's probably not true, at least not in any deep sense.
Isotropic coordinates can be hard to work with (they have more non-zero Christoffel symbols than Schwarzschild coordinates, IIRC), but they have the advantage that the preserve the isotropy of the speed of light.
The isotropy of the speed of light does have advantages when applying one's intuition, which is probably at the root of the textbooks claim.
I think it's ultimately more important to have the mathematical machinery available to check one's intuition - this means being able to move beyond Schwarzschild coordinates if necessary - so one can separate out the "good" intuitions from the "not-so-good" ones.
I'd also like to put a brief plug in for regarding time dilation as an aspect of curvature, rather than to try to interpreting it literally as some "physical" effect.
I'm pretty sure Wald makes some remarks about this, but I don't recall exactly well, and I don't really hae the time to look it up at the moment.
Basically, time dilation is highly coordinate dependent, and focussing too intently on it obscures the broader picture of the close relationship between time an space.