Yes, force is a messy concept in SR. And yes, everything else transforms as well. That's why it pays to find the right frame to express your question and then transform to another frame if you have to. You really can draw correct conclusions by just working in the beam frame. I'm not really asking anything. I'm just saying that the conclusion that opposite charges in the rest frame of the charges will repel is true, no matter how much you try to complicate it by frame change.