Ok, let's analyze the problem in #1. I was a bit too quick with my posting on the force, because here you need not only the force but also its split into electric and magnetic components. So we have to do a bit more more work, but we should do it in a manifest covariant way. In the following I set ##c=1## and work in Heaviside-Lorentz units, which are most adequate for relativistic covariant formulations of electrodynamics ;-). In the following I use the four-velocity of the particle (proton in the example) ##u^{\mu} = \mathrm{d} x^{\mu}/\mathrm{d} \tau=p^{\mu}/m## and the west-coast convention for the metric, ##(\eta_{\mu \nu}=\mathrm{diag}(1,-1,-1,-1)##.
Of course, the most simple frame is the rest frame of the two protons, which we call ##\Sigma'##. First we consider the electromagnetic field of one of the protons, which we put for simplicity in the origin of the reference frame. It's world line is given by ##(x^{\prime \mu})=(\tau,0,0,0)## and thus ##(u^{\prime \mu})=(1,0,0,0)##. The four-potential of its field is of course the static Coulomb potential (in Lorenz gauge):
$$(A^{\prime \mu})=\frac{q}{4 \pi r'} (1,0,0,0)=\frac{1}{4 \pi r'} (u^{\mu}).$$
Now in the frame ##\Sigma##, where this proton moves with velocity ##\vec{v}=v \vec{e}_1## along the common ##x^1## axes of ##\Sigma'## and ##\Sigma##, the four-potential is
$$A^{\mu} ={(\Lambda^{-1})^{\mu}}_{\nu} A^{\prime \nu}, \quad x^{\prime \mu}={\Lambda^{\mu}}_{\nu} x^{\nu}.$$
The Lorentz matrix ##{\Lambda^{\mu}}_{\nu}## is given in #27. The result of the transformation is
$$A^{\mu}=\frac{q}{4 \pi r'} u^{\mu}=\frac{\gamma q}{4 \pi r'} \begin{pmatrix}1 \\ v \\ 0 \\ 0 \end{pmatrix}, \quad r'=\sqrt{(x^1-v t)^2+(x^2)^2 + (x^3)^2}.$$
Now, written in conventional (1+3) form the electromagnetic field components in this frame are given by
$$\vec{E}=-\vec{\nabla} A^0-\partial_t \vec{A} = \frac{\gamma q}{4 \pi r^{\prime 3}} \begin{pmatrix} x^1-v t \\ x^2 \\ x^3\end{pmatrix}$$
and
$$\vec{B}=\vec{\nabla} \times \vec{A}=\vec{v} \times \vec{E}.$$
The force on the 2nd proton, whose world line is given by ##y^{\prime \mu}=(tau,0,L,0)## with ##L=1 \;\text{cm}##. It's four-velocity is ##\tilde{u}^{\prime \mu}=(1,0,0,0)## and thus in the frame ##\Sigma## it's ##\tilde{u}^{\mu}=\gamma (1,v,0,0)##. From this you get for the spatical part of the electric and magnetic forces at time ##t=0##
$$\vec{K}_E=q \tilde{u}^0 \vec{E}=q \gamma \vec{E}=\frac{\gamma^2 q^2}{4 \pi L^2} \vec{e}_2$$
and
$$\vec{K}_B=q \tilde{\vec{u}} \times \vec{B} = q \gamma \vec{v} \times (\vec{v} \times \vec{E})=-\frac{q^2 v^2 \gamma^2}{4 \pi L^2} \vec{e}_2.$$
Note that the total Minkowski force is
$$\vec{K}_{\text{tot}}=\vec{K}_E + \vec{K}_M=\frac{q^2}{4 \pi L^2} \vec{e}_2,$$
which immideately follows from the Lorentz transformation of the corresponding four vector, which stays unchanged in this case, because it has only a ##x^2## component in ##\Sigma'## and thus, via the Lorentz boost in ##x^1## direction also in ##\Sigma##.
For the ratio of the magnetic to the electric force parts you get ##v^2##, i.e., for this simple example the non-relativistic approximation is exact (because the additional ##\gamma## factor of the exact transformation cancels in the ratio).