Allright, say that you have the classical quantum mechanical example, a particle with spin up or down (for example an electron). Then it is possible to prepare the system (i have no idea how you do this in practice, but scientists are awesome) so that there is a 50/50 chance to measure spin up or spin down in one direction.
We then say that the electron is in a superposition state of the two outcomes. Both are possible, and with a repeated series of this experiment, you would end up getting both results.
Short comment on the expression 'superposition'; with waves that satisfy the superposition principle (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superposition_principle), if you have two waves moving and they meet in a point in space, the 'effective' wave one sees is simply the sum of the two amplitudes in that point. This is why we get intensity maxima and minima in interference experiments, at some points, the two waves cancel each other out, and some other points, they do in fact 'double up'.
So, back to the double slit experiment! When the electron moves towards the double slit, the reason why we get an interference pattern is that, well there is a chance that the electron will go through the left slit, and there is a chance that it will go through the right slit. Here we have a superposition of the two possible paths that the electron will go! Allright, then say that we choose to measure at what slit the electron passes through. Well, if we measure with some measurement device, we also have to check the device with our eyes what the result was! Because if we let the device measure the electrons wise choice, the measurement device could ALSO be in a superposition state, where BOTH left and right is possible!
We have sort of 'moved' the problem from the electron itself to the measurement device. But if we after the device did measure (but is in a superposition state, we have to check the device to force the Nature to choose what slit the electron chose), if we then just decided to drop to read out the result (this can be thought of as the destruction of the information, we just never measure), then we would still see wave behavior.
I haven't really read through this post again, might be really, really bad :p