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The article mentioned the biological causal factor to be decreasing reproductive capacity for males after 40. So the biological clock isn't too strict. Still plenty of time left.
That looks like a Poisson distribution...DaveC426913 said:Roughly, the incidence of birth more than halves every five years the father ages.
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Svein said:That looks like a Poisson distribution...
Yes. As I pointed out, that makes it much worse for your case.FallenApple said:Fascinating. But its all births though. Not first births.
You posit a statistically highly unlikely scenario: that the data above just happens to have a huge bias of unusually poor and/or unusually unattractive men concentrated in the upper age brackets - for no particular reason than hugely bad luck on the part of the researchers. The point of taking a large sample is that such statistical unlikelihoods are so minimized as to be statistically-insignificant.FallenApple said:And also, we need to control for the person's attractiveness level and wealth to be absolutely certain that the association between low first births increasing age isn't due to unattractiveness or poverty.
It might look a bit like a duck, but it doesn't walk like a duck - it's not a duck.FallenApple said:Yes it does. And the Poisson distribution deals with independent events occurring over some fixed quantitative intervals.
DaveC426913 said:Yes. As I pointed out, that makes it much worse for your case.
You are looking for first birth, since you're talking about starting a family.
If we were able to break that chart down by birth order, then only plot the ones relevant to you - a very large number of points would disappear from the right side of the graph. Those are the points you need to hit, and they're almost gone now.You posit a statistically highly unlikely scenario: that the data above just happens to have a huge bias of unusually poor and/or unusually unattractive men concentrated in the upper age brackets - for no particular reason than hugely bad luck on the part of the researchers. The point of taking a large sample is that such statistical unlikelihoods are so minimized as to be statistically-insignificant.
Fair enough.DaveC426913 said:It might look a bit like a duck, but it doesn't walk like a duck - it's not a duck.
Yes. As I said, this works against you.FallenApple said:From the data you presented, it doesn't seem like the researchers excluded men that already have a child.
FallenApple said:Would women choose a 6'1, well muscled, wide shouldered, good looking, deep voiced man with a good amount of savings, albeit middle aged with some signs of wrinkles on a otherwise good face, or would they go for the Average Joe living paycheck to paycheck, but happens to be younger? That's really what it boils down to.
Vanadium 50 said:I don't think women are quite as shallow as that, and you're counting on the exceptions.
"Sometimes your shallowness is so thorough, it's almost like depth."
DaveC426913 said:OMG, can't someone with some statistics chops weigh in here?? Surely the OP is cherry-picking his population bias' to suit what appears to be his overly-optimistic thinking.
I'm not wise enough in the ways of Statistics-Fu to state that succinctly.
No. It's about the stats.FallenApple said:It's not about the stats. Associations are useless without theory to back it up. What we need isn't a statistician, but an evolutionary psychologist.
None if which has anything to do with starting a family. This is a total strawman, just like the dating thing.FallenApple said:Attraction is non negotiable. Fair or unfair, it is what it is.
I am attracted to certain traits in women. If none of those traits are there, then it would be very difficult to sustain a relationship. I'm not judging their personality based on said traits. I can sustain a friendship with a woman I'm not attracted to just fine. Since when has sexual attraction ever been reduced to a judgment of character or the compatibility of background? Never because that isn't the purpose. And it works both ways, male attraction to female and female attraction to male. No one is going to have a happy relationship with someone they find unattractive.
Ultimately, both the ability to raise a family and attraction are both absolutely needed to start a family. How is a woman even supposed to get pregnant if there is no physical attraction?DaveC426913 said:None if which has anything to do with starting a family. This is a total strawman, just like the dating thing.
Women - particularly older women - cannot afford to confuse attraction with ability to raise a family.
Rive said:Cultural evolution/selection at work.
:shrug:
I would say we should just let things go on their own way.
DaveC426913 said:No. It's about the stats.
An evo-psych will be able provide an the answer that is in line with what you want that is plausible to you.
The stats will tell you what really is happening - which is a better indicator of what women are actually choosing.
False.FallenApple said:Ultimately, both the ability to raise a family and attraction are both absolutely needed to start a family. How is a woman even supposed to get pregnant if there is no physical attraction?
No.FallenApple said:Cultural evolution is too complicated. The simpler explanation is from evolutionary psychology. The V-Taper is beautiful because athletic men needed to be good hunters, the hourglass shape is beautiful because it indicates fertility and and has an important role in childbirth. Resources are important because sometimes things might run out.
Yes, which - because you are both trying to predict the future, and predict the behavior of people you cannot control - is the best you have to go on.FallenApple said:stats will tell you what is happening in the aggregate.
DaveC426913 said:False.No.
My primitive ancestors feared leopards too, but I can look at a picture of a leopard without fear. We are not doomed to follow the instincts of our forebears; we do not live in the same world. 21st century men do not need to be good physical hunters.
You talk about hypothetical ancestral drivers. But modern fathers come in all shapes and sizes. Women do not need to choose their mates based on traits are are no longer applicable to a stable family; they are not idiots.
The primary driver, by far, is modern cultural factors.Yes, which - because you are both trying to predict the future, and predict the behavior of people you cannot control - is the best you have to go on.
It is the best indicator of what you will actually encounter, not what you suppose you should encounter.
No one suggested any such thing. This is way, way off-topic. Let's dispense with the straw men please, and get back to facts.FallenApple said:Women forcing themselves to endure sex with a man she finds highly unattractive just to have a child for cultural reasons?... that's not idiocy, that's insanity. I doubt that really happens with great frequency.
DaveC426913 said:No one suggested any such thing. This is way, way off-topic. Let's dispense with the straw men please, and get back to facts.
All right. I've shown my data; you show yours.FallenApple said:Back on topic then, evolutionary psychology do show wealth and looks to be very important factors in a man for a woman looking to rear a child with.
DaveC426913 said:OMG, can't someone with some statistics chops weigh in here?? Surely the OP is cherry-picking his population bias' to suit what appears to be his overly-optimistic thinking.
I'm not wise enough in the ways of Statistics-Fu to state that succinctly.
Would you say the OP's response in #105 is compelling and reasonable?pinball1970 said:Ive been following this and I should not be surprised by the scientific analysis. All compelling and sounds reasonable ...
we need to control for the person's attractiveness level and wealth to be absolutely certain that the association between low first births increasing age isn't due to unattractiveness or poverty.
DaveC426913 said:I finally found the data I was looking for. I believe it was so hard to find because it's so fundamental that it just isn't of interest, and therefore does not show up in Google searches (even a search of journals like PubMed probably wouldn't turn it up).
This article contains the following graph, showing how births dramatically decrease as a function of paternal age:
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If we take anyone vertical slice (such as the rightmost points) - it shows how births drop off dramatically with paternal age:
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note: this data includes all births in a family, so the start of families is probably even more pronounced, since it will very strongly bias the data toward the left/younger.
So, I don't think anyone doubted this outcome.
Now we'll add some "advantage factor" - wealth or good looks. These could be anything, but I've made it a constant across the board - independent of age:
View attachment 234457The question now becomes just how big an advantage must it be in order to more than offset the huge drop in changes due to increasing age?
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My intent was simply showing what people are actually doing, regardless of motive. This will be a good indicator of what the OP can expect the pool to look like when he's ready.ZeGato said:Did that survey guarantee that all the men included WANTED to have children, or was it just doing a global research on the fathers' ages? Because if it's the later, it may just reflect the unwilingness to have children as you get older, not the likelihood of having children at a particular age, given that you want to.
DaveC426913 said:My intent was simply showing what people are actually doing, regardless of motive. This will be a good indicator of what the OP can expect the pool to look like when he's ready.
Let's just hope she doesn't find modesty to be an important trait.FallenApple said:...I would still have these highly sought after physical vestigial traits that have been considered highly attractive for much of human history...
...I would be much more wealthier than I am now...
This type of data is exceptionally solid. This is vital statistics data from the CDC which gets birth record data from all the hospitals in the US. This is almost not sample data but population data. The only births that would not be included in this data would be births for which no medical attention was sought, which is such a minuscule portion of all births that I think it can be safely neglected and it can be considered to be the population.DaveC426913 said:OMG, can't someone with some statistics chops weigh in here?? Surely the OP is cherry-picking his population bias' to suit what appears to be his overly-optimistic thinking.
I'm not wise enough in the ways of Statistics-Fu to state that succinctly.