ognik said:
A) Yes, briefly - $$ \hat{q}_{i}.\hat{q}_{i}=1,\: differentiating\:w.r.t.\:{q}_{i}\: gives\: \hat{q}_{i} \frac{\partial \hat{q}_{i}}{\partial {q}_{i}} =0\:
\: \therefore \:\frac{\partial\hat{q}_{i}}{\partial {q}_{i}}\:must\:be\:in\:same\:direction\:as\:\hat{q}_{i} $$
If the dot product of two non-zero vectors is zero, then they're
not in the same direction. Instead, one of them is in the plane that's orthogonal to the other.
Edit: I see now that the calculation you did there is an essential part of the proof of the result for ##\frac{\partial\hat{\mathbf q}_i}{\partial q_i}##. It explains why we can drop the ##j=i## term from the sum right away, and then use that ##j\neq i## in the remaining terms.
ognik said:
B) You don't say, but is there a flaw in my attempt at (1)?
I don't see anything that's wrong, but the proof isn't complete until you have proved that ##\frac{\partial\hat{\mathbf q}_i}{\partial q_j}## is in the direction of ##\hat{\mathbf q}_j##.
My attempt is no better, since I wasn't able to prove that ##\hat{\mathbf q}_k\cdot\mathbf X_{ij}=0##.
ognik said:
C) Maybe this helps :
Going back to basics, qi are generalized curvilinear (and orthogonal) coordinates, so that (q1, q2, q3) could, for example, be (r, θ, ϕ).
What is hi? It is a coefficient (with units of length), such that dsi = hi dqi - keeping with the above spherical example:
$$ h_{r}=\frac{\partial \vec{r}}{\partial r}=(sin{\theta} cos{\phi}, sin{\theta}sin{\phi},cos{\theta} $$
##h_r## is the scalar you get when you take the dot product of that vector with itself, and then take the square root of the result.
I like this way of looking at it: We have ##dr_i=\sum_j \frac{\partial r_i}{\partial q_j}dq_j## and therefore
$$ds^2=\sum_i dr_i^2 =\sum_i\sum_j\sum_k \frac{\partial r_i}{\partial q_j}\frac{\partial r_i}{\partial q_k}dq_j dq_k =\sum_j\sum_k \frac{\partial\mathbf r}{\partial q_j}\cdot\frac{\partial\mathbf r}{\partial q_k}dq_j dq_k.$$ When we're dealing with an orthogonal coordinate system, that dot product is zero when ##j\neq k##, so we can simplify the above to
$$\sum_j\left(\frac{\partial\mathbf r}{\partial q_j}\right)^2 dq_j^2.$$ The ##h_i## are supposed to satisfy
$$ds^2=\sum_j h_j^2 dq_j^2,$$ so we have ##h_i^2=\big(\frac{\partial\mathbf r}{\partial q_j}\big)^2##, where the "square" on the right-hand side is a dot product.