Responding what when someone calls you

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The discussion centers around the perceived rudeness of responding with "What?" when someone calls another person's name, contrasting it with more polite alternatives like "Yes?" or "How may I help you?" Participants express differing views on whether "What?" is inherently rude, with some arguing that it can be a thoughtless response that conveys annoyance, while others believe it is a straightforward acknowledgment that saves time. The conversation touches on the evolution of language and etiquette, suggesting that societal norms around communication are changing. Tone of voice and context are highlighted as critical factors in determining the rudeness of a response. Ultimately, the thread reveals a divide between traditional expectations of politeness and more modern, casual interactions, with some participants advocating for a broader perspective on what constitutes rudeness in communication.
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Evo said:
You know someone that says "what up"? Did you correct them?

I went to a home improvement store over the weekend to price some building materials (starting another home improvement project that I'll undoubtedly need help to finish) and was greeted with a "Whut Uup" by the specialist.

I didn't correct him...but I did ask to speak to "the manager in charge". When the manager was summoned, she asked if there was a problem...and my response was NO...that I was considering a major purchase and wanted to speak with an adult.

They seemed to understand.
 
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